Ok, Today is my first day back from about a 2 week vacation. To everyone who's tried to get in contact with me over the last two weeks, I apologize as I've been very busy with school and I had a wisdom tooth pulled.

I had a new review posted today dated "May 2005." Guess what?? Unless you saw me today after 1pm, then there is no way possible you could have seen me in May. EclipsM, your review is 100% fake. You DID NOT see me this month. Hidden agenda maybe??
I can guarantee that you would not be able to tell me when you saw me or what I was wearing.

At this point I'm really tired of the malicious and fake reviews, so I'm thinking of delisting myself. One thing, I will miss is conversing on the board.

What do you think guys?

This has happened to me before as well, I was fortunate that the staff deleted the review when I requested.  This, along with other reasons is why you will not see me post much on this forum.

Ashana, not sure what to say about delisting yourself, but I'm beginning to think all your reviews are fake.  Sorry, I'm sure that's not true!  But I've tried contacting you via phone and e-mail many times over the last several months with no luck.  My phone doesn't show as private so that's not it.  As for malicious reviews, I wouldn't worry too much.  The overall picture that your TER reviews paint is impressive.  And your website shows you are gorgeous.  Now back to the really important question, is there really a way to contact you???

The date on the review is when it was written, not when the visit took place.  In addition, the review is not malicious at all.  It’s very positive.  Why would you want to delete tons of great reviews, over one that you do not perceive as correct?  Your business will drop by atleast 20% without your TER reviews.  There are many women who regret having their reviews pulled.  I am sure support can attest to that.

Ashana don't let a few with agenda's ruin your day. 90% of your reviews are outstanding 9's and 10's consistantly you are in the top 5% of all providers no worries.

Don't delist yourself. Just fight back. Fill out a problem report and keep pestering them till it doesn't bother you anymore or they yank it. Fake reviews do 2 things: they send out the message that it is OK to see the guy when he may be a sociopath, and they deprive TER of its profitable VIP money. If the guy is too cheap to bust out dough for VIP then he is going to be too cheap to pay your donation or someone else's.

I hate the 10/10s as much as the 5/6s. Both are ridiculous. If we are too uptight about the reviews it points to the fact that we may be too wrapped up in the business, right?  Take a breather, vent with a fellow provider, put on some Barry White and crack open a bottle of Pinot and watch the sunset. But don't listen to me, I bitch all the time about my fake reviews. 2 got yanked in the past year, but I have another 2 back. They are like weeds. They keep coming back.

Hey Sweetie - I'm sorry this bothers you so much. But, It is not one review that makes for a good evaluation. And this reviewer has only 3 previous reviews. He might be trying to keep up with a free VIP membership.

And the date it shows up is not even the date it was written. It takes several days for approval. And as already mentioned - it could be from last month - or more likely - a fake.

I for one would miss you if you delisted yourself. I know you don't really need TER as some may assume. But I've read enough in the TER Mail Bag to know many that delist later come to realize it was in hast.

Call me - I'll come over and comfort you though this ok - hehehe - actually, I'll call you...

Actually, Whore Amongst Us, that is incorrect.  The Month/Year IS the response given by the review for the question ‘Date of Last Visit’.  That is why you see reviews listed as New that have a date of March/2005 appearing this month.

You shouldn't delist just because of one lukewarm review. But you can have individual reviews removed on a case-by-case basis. A colleague of mine had that done recently when someone wrote a fake review about her.

I personally don't have reviews, and have more inquiries than I can accommodate (though I am admittedly very low volume). You might still do okay without them, but if you do feel you need them to keep business good, then just try to have the one removed.

Many of us work so hard to please bosses and customers, meet deadlines and forecasts.  Only one thing is for certain: you can't please everyone all of the time.

It's possible the review was written weeks after the visit, so I can't say whether it's legit or not.

As far as delisting, I'm sure your locals will support you either way, it's just a matter of whether or not that serves your interests.

I've noticed the review date being off on quite a few review's of various provider's. I'd be inclined to believe Whore Amongst Us. If the poster doesn't enter the date of the meeting it'll stay in the default current date, month and year. They probably missed the date of visit header or just didn't bother to change it. Like already said if it was a good review it's highly unlikely it was meant as harmful. Calm down.

Well Ashana, if slipry has a fender bender on the way over, and he runs out of minutes, I'd be more than happy to perform those "comforting duties", dear...

 I believe we've had this "discussion" before.  Jeopcon has WRITTEN the most reviews, and you HAVE the most reviews!  LOL  I know you've actually been concerned a bit about just how many you DO have.  From the hobbyists' perspective, there is NO such thing as too many.  But, I know how you are concerned and feel about this.

 I think a lot of it is just "post vacation blues".  It gets tough to readjust to the grind after Bora Bora, or wherever.  Give it a few days and I think you will be able to get over it.  Frankly, I think it is a new reviewer who may not know how to properly fill out the form, but did so just enough to get the review approved.

 If you're still in a funk after a few days, realize that you don't have to worry about "who ya' gonna call?"....  As the song lyrics go: "I'll be there in a hurry; you don't have to worry"....

Still have four I need to complete. I don't see how jeopcon does it..lol

You have wonderful reviews. I notice recently a young lady on this board had a bad review pulled. Same situation so keep bugging staff.

Make sure you follow the dentists instructions to the letter. I've seen people in the Military go thru a lot of pain from letting infection set in. Me I had four pulled at one time; but was lucky really good surgeon. Heal Well

I like doing them too, and sure it satisfies me (for awhile), but I hate writing the reviews!

You are quickly going for Uncle Oswald superstar status Jeop - I'm not worthy!

 -- DH

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Right jeep!  The only other person that knows is the provider.  She can either turn in a problem report, or choose not to.  

 For me, I have always used the "honor system".  Particularly if a session was more than three months ago (per TER rule), I would NEVER post a review.  Actually after about 3 weeks the juicy details tend to get lost in this ole noggin' (dementia setting in?).  I also made it a policy to not review anyone that I saw before I became a TER member (even though it was in the allowable time period).

Ah, so you finally saw Carly (who I saw back in the early fall, I think).  I'll await your review to see how you felt about her.

...you'll pass me in about a month, BD.  I have seen a few providers but not in GFE sessions.  Hence, I did not feel it was fair to review them, since the system is geared toward GFE (and I feel unfairly punishes dommes and such).  Also, I have been seeing more of my favs lately.

 BTW if I had four in the queue, I would just say fuck it.  Too much for me to keep straight anymore.

Not a fake..  Heres an email from you (below, I copied and had to take out the HTML characters).  Damn, what's the use of giving a truthful opinion

From: "Ashana" [email protected]  Add to Address BookAdd to Address Book

Hi,

3:30pm works for me (depending on the time I can check into
the hotel). I can let you know a few hours before.

[Edited by mod - too much detail on location]

Please include a number where you can be reached. I will give you a
call
about an hour-and-a-half before just to reconfirm or you can give me a
ring. When you arrive at the hotel, you can give me a call for the room
number.

See ya tomorrow!!
Ashana

-- Modified on 5/6/2005 4:58:03 AM

What does your e-mail prove? The header should have included the date it was sent. It doesn't because you're lying. You aren't the first one to give an "honest" opinion, but you DID NOT see me in May.

I have to write one on NetM. I wrote one on CJ but it was reject due to website.. I will finish the rest in the next couple of weeks.

Let this one ride.. Some people might think you are 7 and some might think you are a 10.. They will come because you are giving them what they want. Also at a price that is affordable.. Don't sweat the small stuff. I think we can agree the meeting didn't take place in May, if at all. Reviews are taking 3or 4 days to post.

The performannce was wonderful and that what counts..Now you know not to schedule him again, his lost..

It wasn't in May.  We met earlier in the year and I had I great time.  I didn't mean to upset her.  I was giving an honest opinion.  I guess this is why us hobbyist have to take reviews with a grain of salt.  Providers know who writes what & we get soft hearted.

I never said a bad thing about her attitude, performance or anything.  I just stated an observation that surprised me & that wasn't mentioned before.  I made it clear that it was hard to say anything but positive, but I feel a review should be like talking to a good friend when nobody else is around.  

I still think she's a big time sweetheart.  

If you want me to prove something I can tell you the stories behind your tattoes from the big easy

At least you got to see CJ after her move.  I haven't been able to do so.  Guess she doesn't luv me anymore. {Sniff}

Goodness BD, if I ever found out Ashana wasn't going to SCHEDULE me anymore, I think I would just have to go out and SHOOT myself.  Come to think of it, you probably would spread that rumor just so I WOULD!  LOL

You can generate so many replies with one post.  This is why I have touble getting you answer the phone call.  May be I should focus on less popular ladies whom I can get appointment, LOL.

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I think that would be to much information on the tattoes..

Gee tiger, I NEVER have any problem booking Ashana.  In FACT, she keeps telling me that I don't book her often ENOUGH.