Why is it that many of the TER gents do not post a review after seeing ladies?  ECE has had many TER gents visit ladies and not post a review.  I get asked everyday, did I get a review posted today?  I can think of 3 I have seen in the past month, yet no reviews.  And Taz, she has seen quite a few gentleman from TER that have not posted a review for her, likewise for Aimee and Angelique.  Seems to be alot of inconsistencies with who gets reviewed and who doesnt.  I dont know...just thought I would pose the question....

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I post reviews and judging by the number of reviews for DC, so do many of the guys in the DC area. Noticed that you are near Baltimore, so maybe the guys up there aren't in the habit of posting as much as those down in DC.

Hey Ms L....I would guess that most guys may just be lazy.  Others may feel that posting a review may compromise their "discreetness" perhaps; I was a bit concerened at 1st (as you can tell, not concerned anymore --- lol) .. I generally ask the provider if she'd like me to post.... if she says yes, then I do it---- the Z

However, TER for whatever reason, is not allowing me to post reviews.  I have no idea why as I've done it successfully twice in the past and the reviews are still standing.

I think some idiot probably reported I'm a provider or some equivalent to block me from posting reviews.  Still, I've sent inquiries to admin since Thursday and nada.  

The guys I doubt have this problem.  This seems to be a uniquely female hobbyist issue.  I've once had my reviews pulled for two days because of some similarly inane reason.  It gets tiring.  I wonder if some women can't or don't post reviews at all for the same reason.

Some feel the need to post a review various extraneous reasons, and some do it for their own ego.

I tried to call one of your providers and I found her to be very bad in terms of scheduling an appointment. She did not want to schedule a couple days in advance. Her attitiude was just call me an hour before. Many of us have very busy schedules and things have to be planned in advance. It was a shame because her incall is so close to my job. She like some of providers that I have dealt with are not too accomidating. The deal was off as far I am concerned. I have seen her post everyday on CL. If she was more accomidating with scheduling an appointment she could have had the hook up with me a regular basis.

Providers need to learn to serve the customer needs. If you serve the needs guys will be repeat customers. Repeat customers allow you to be UTR. You need to make the experience so the clients can't wait to see you again. There are guys out there who do book more than 1 hour on a regular basis.

That really doesnt have anything to do with not posting reviews.  I know which lady you are speaking of...their independent clients are handled as they choose to see fit.  What I was referring to was lack of reviews getting posted.  Not the lack of professionalism before you have seen them.  I cannot speak on her behalf, and I think maybe you should email her and express your thoughts and constructive critisim.  I too will mention your comments to her.

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Your right Jeopcon, but...why bother with a membership if you dont have the inclination or follow up that is expected?

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We welcome all reviews, the good, the bad, the ugly...it helps us know where our strenths and weaknesses are...as long as a review is on point and true, we welcome them.  If a client has had a bad experience, I want to know so I can offer some sort of incentive for them to return and see another lady.  A few gents can verify that I do that.  If I get enough complaints, regardless of how much of an "earner" they are...we let them go.

Prior past experiences have shown that when people advance book with me they are less serious about showing up or canceling with me as opposed to full service ladies. That is why I do not like to pre-book appointments. Thus far I have not had any complaints on how I handle my independent clients.

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I just wanted to be sure sweetie.

1. All of the ladies that I have seen are already well reviewed so repeating what 10 - 20 people have already said seems redundant.

2. If I ever get the 00's to TOFTT I would feel obligated to the members to post.

3. And this may be a little personal, but there have been a couple of ladies that I really liked and felt guilty to post a play by play of our encounter, you know,  the one you wish you have met under different circumstances.

4. The short list of post I do have mainly was to maintain VIP.

In summary, I usually do not post if my date was consistent with her reviews or If I had some unrealistic feelings for her. I WILL/WOULD post for a lady that has no reviews or my time with her was not consistant with her reviews.

Sorry if that is selfish, just my opinion.

...but I'll chime in about my attitude about pre-booking.  Certain ladies demand pre-booking.  Personally, I think pre-booking is a nuisance, and usually, if I'm willing to make the call, I want some satisfaction immediately, not next week.  The closest I come to pre-booking is maybe a day in advance, especially if it's someone I really want to see and I know they're going to be busy.  For that I can wait, sometimes.  I'm not saying one method is better than another, I'm just stating the method that works for me.

...no matter how much you enjoyed the book.  I've never used ECE but I will say, I am bad about posting reviews sometimes.  Sometimes I just don't feel like it.  Other times I do.  

I do enough research, so I don't get ripped off anymore.  If I'm indifferent I usually don't post a review because I'm so indifferent that I don't see a point in investing the time in something that's already left me...indifferent.

I don't post multiple reviews of the same person.  I usually find that the service doesn't change enough to justify a follow-up review.

Sometimes you find people you click with.  A lot of people think this is not possible.  When you schedule a one hour appt with someone and they keep you for 3 or 4 hours, they obviously like you.  Even though there may still be a business transaction at some point, it does become a more personal relationship.  IMO sharing the details of such things is inappropriate.  It can cause jealousy (albeit unjustified, jealousy is hardly a rational emotion) among other guys.  Guys will expect that same treatment from the lady.  And it only serves to make her life more difficult.  

Some guys don't write any reviews.  They're worried about discretion.  I'm sure TER doesn't mind charging them for membership.  

All in all, there are many reasons why guys don't write reviews.  It's probably just as well.

I can only speak from my own very limited experience here, having seen a grand total of three providers so far, but all the ladies said they preferred not to be reviewed.  They weren't exactly what you'd call mainstream providers, as I found one on CL, one in CityPaper, and the other on another board, but they were unanimous in not believing that they would be able to correct any misinformation that happened to get out.  Amusingly, all were careful to say something to the effect of, "I don't think *you* would do that," but it does suggest thaat they're more worried about the potential negative effects of a bad review than the positive effects of a good one.  There was also sentiment expressed about reviews being faked, which matches up with comments I've seen here.

I do feel like I've gotten good value from my TER membership, even without writing reviews.  I have tried to give back to the community in some small way by commenting here in the forums, but unless I find myself branching out to different providers (which is certainly not out of the question), I probably won't be writing any reviews.

I dont think I ever got around to writing a review on the one visit I had with one of your ladies.  Didn't seem to be any point in it, since I didn't expect to be welcomed back after I mentioned in a post afterward the discomfort I had felt at your incall location the day I was there.  I accepted the fact that others were perfectly happy with that sort of arrangement, and I just moved on. I do generally post reviews, and like to be positive in them, not complain about every little thing that's imperfect.

I remember the day you are speaking about.  Since you have not been back to see, but just to let you know, it is not anywhere close to chaotic like that day (picture day), plus we have downsized in the amount of ladies we have, which helped tremendouly.  If you ever feel like taking that step and trying again, you more than welcome to.  I cannot fault someone who has a bad experience or uncomfortable experience, everyone has a different threshold on what is acceptable and non-acceptable.  We took you critism to heart and made the drastic changes necessary.  Again, I am sorry that issue happened to you.

Staff got back to me today and I can now post reviews.  Time to get busy.

1)When I first found TER I was gung ho to write reviews. My first one took about two weeks to clear and my second one (submitted) is still out in the ethernet somewhere. I cooled quickly on the idea overall, though I wrote (a good, but i felt, true one) for someone who was getting some bad press at the time, and one for someone (new) who requested one.

2) I mainly see UTR ladies, who usually don't want a review. (I'm an impulse shopper, so I usually don't bother with anyone that has to have much advance notice!) Every once in a while I branch out to a well known lady, but then there is no real impetus to writing something so similar to everyone else's already written review. (RE: 'gqspot' in earlier message). I do like to write a mini-review (or at least a comment message) or two, especially when someone on the board is asking about someone I know.

3) I keep up with comments and reviews on ladies who interest me initially (their original Eros ad or post on TER, etc) and if I later see a positive or negative comment somewhere, I spit it up when someone asks (even if I haven't seen them personally). For some reason, even doing the research is fun for me, even if it doesn't end in a visit. Happy to BC with pic's or info I've kept for a reminder.

4) I just go ahead and pay for the membership, so I don't need to make (up?) a quota for number of reviews.

Would love to see some of your ladies, but your location is a little far from NoVa for me, although I get tempted often.

I had a great session with you but was so exhausted that I have not had the energy to do the review.  Just submitted it. LOL  Can I go back to bed now?

TER staff are rolling tonite...my review of Lea was approved within 12 minutes. Faster than it took me to come  LMAO

Awwwww, thank you sweetie...you could have waited til you recovered....just wait til next time.  I only get better with each appt!

I appreciate what you said, and I expect I'll be calling soon.

Girl, I wish I had your problem.  Not by mistake, but because I actually WAS a provider...haha  Must admit, I have always wondered what it would be like.  All that fun, variety, adventure.  They say the pay is really good, too!!!  Helluva' lot more than I have ever made; that's for SURE!

read TER's own VIP membership materials and criteria.  Right there it states that there are two types of VIP memberships: paid, and review writing.  As a result there can be and often are three: the third being a combination of the first two.

 Reading the fine print closer, one will find that NO free VIP time credit is given for a review of a given provider AFTER the first review.  Also, often providers move on and no longer have pictures up on the internet (also a criteria for getting a review approved).

 Hence, one functionally cannot be a credited reviewer UNLESS they would meet the commonly accepted definition of a "hobbyist" (meaning one who sees numerous different ladies in the business).  The last one is disqualifying ME, these days...

 So you might ask, why would one otherwise desire to be a VIP member without reviewing.  The answer is the same whether one is a hobbyist, a provider, or some one else.  VIP membership offers the ability to pm within TER.  It also provides access to more juicy details within the reviews.  Assuming one finds the reviews useful for whatever reason (and many of us do) they are basically rather useless without the juicy details.  Anyone can tell you the shortcomings of a pure numerical rating scale (not that the narratives are necessarily factual either).  However, narratives tend to be closer to the truth and more informative than numerical ratings.

 So in answer to your question, there are many legitimate reasons why someone could desire to be a VIP member without desiring to submit reviews.  Whether one submits reviews and to what extent is strictly a matter of personal reasons and choice.

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Two reasons. Several of the ladies I see delisted here due to the "explicitness" requirements of reviews. Two, I really do not like to give explicit details. I post elsewhere.

YAAAHOOO!  Just what I've been waiting to hear!  Go to it GIRL!  Too bad Jayla's website says she doesn't desire any more reviews these days.  Of course in YOUR case, she might just make an "exception".  HAHAHA  On the OTHER hand, she might desire even MORE discretion....  Fortunately for me, I don't NEED a review to know firsthand what Jayla's sessions are like for EITHER sex!  Damn.  Ain't life just GRAND?

so there is no way to find old reivews by phone search.  I am reluctant to see ladies without review and having changed phone number so many times made me suspicious of the service.

ECE girls have links on our website to reviews.  We have changed the phone number 2 times.  Once due to a new incall location.  Also, our number is always posted on our website, or email me, and I can send you a link to reviews on any of the girls you have a question about.  Hope this helps.