I just saw that Selma and Cassandra are working w/ Lindsay Love and Co.  Does anyone have any info on this and why?  

Thanks!
JRT

Gee, do you have to remind us EVERY time you're off to drop another $500?  oops, it's $600 this week.  

--jb

I am also attending.  See you there.

JB; Leave it alone man.. I think everyone knew Jeop was going to Lindsay party.. Not a big deal man.. We all try to treat each other like adults on the board, no need to keeping picking at one person..I actual like some of your posts but not the negative ones directed at Jeop all the time..Seems a little petty..

Maybe petty.. But it's so hard to get past his gigantic ego.  It pretty much takes up the entire forum.

I don't really care if he's going to Lindsey's party every week.  It's just the fact that he has to flaunt what and who he's done over and over.  Making sure everyone knows he's done 2-3-4 new ladies for the week.  Maybe he gets a rush out of reminding everyone what he does no one else can.  Because not many of us can drop $1000-1500.00 a week on this hobby without others noticing it being gone.

I've gotten a lot of mail from others laughing at my posts, but they usually agree that he's simply an arrogant, rich guy who loves the limelight.

I really try to simply ignore him, but it's more fun my way.

--jb


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Thanks for not responding to me anymore.  That will make it much better.

But you should really consider seeing someone. Obviously, you're a sexual addict, not any different than a person on cocaine or heroin.  Add sociopath to the mix and there you are!

Bragging about going to have sex with 6 women in an afternoon is not really social behavior.  It's certainly a fun fantasy, but to do it weekly makes it something else. Deviant perhaps?

And of course, you get lots of positive reaction.  Just like whales have their own legion of other smaller creatures who hang on for the ride, you have a certain allure or envy of many guys who can't do what you do.

Ironically, I'd certainly put myself in the same category.  I could never spend the sort of money you do on hobbying, nor can many do it.  My guess is the really wealthy ones don't do it either, they don't see new women weekly, but have their assorted mistresses and are content with that.

Seeing the number of new women you see weekly is probably a definition of sex addict.  And  while I found it fun to do the simple math to find you've dropped close to 2 billion little Jeop's over the past few years, I don't really need a count.  

But seriously dude, get some help. And while you really hate my discussion of 'real life', I can't help but think regardless of what you claim you do, or can afford, somewhere in the mix, you are affecting others around you. Truthfully, how would your inner circle (mom/dad/spouse/kids/co-workers/clergy/friends/LE/IRS/etc.) feel about you finding out what you do during the day, almost every day?

Most of us simply want a little variety on occaision.  It's the fantasy of seeing a really hot, young lady who makes us feel better.  You take it to the ultra-extreme.  

While many guys obviously envy your proclivities, others probably pity you.  Being so lonely you have to get laid by as many women as possible to soothe your soul is not a trait most of us would want passed on to our kids.  

And just curious... If/when you have an adult male son, and he wanted to get into the hobby and follow in daddy's footsteps, what would be your answer?  

Don't forget to brag you got off with all 6 women today.  

--jb

Ok JB, I am leaving myself open to being called names again because I have the gall to question one of your posts. Just like the last time you made personal attacks on a board member I just don't get it.

Why bring up how someones inner circle (mom/dad/spouse/kids/co- workers/clergy/friends/LE/IRS/etc.) would feel about their activities? We are all here sharing information on the same subject, how would anyones inner circle feel? And again, why do you feel it is necessary to intrude upon someone else's personal life?

Most of your attacks bring up how much money a certain individual spends. Again, why is it any of your business? I pm with several gentlemen that see a few of their favorites almost every week and see a visiting lady when one catches their eye. By my calculations they are spending as much if not more than Jeop. Should we be attacking them as well? In either case don't feel it is my business. The money you spend does not affect those around you, but the money others spend does? Hard to make those judgements when none of the facts are known.

I guess these same individuals would fall under your definition of sexual addicts. I get a feeling myself and many others may also fall under the same definition. Not sure where you draw your lines. Is it ok to do what you do, but doing it more often than you do is wrong? If so, that is a convenient line. I think I get it: these gentlemen need help, but what you do is just fun and you don't need any help.

Why do you keep bringing up having 6 ladies in one afternoon. If anyone could really do that it would be interesting news. I have never attended one of the parties, not quite my style, but from what I read guys hook up with a few ladies of their choice. Again, not my style, but several guys from the board go and I have not read any complaints. From reading it appears that Jeop goes to some and skips others. I guess he again is crossing one of your lines. How about the other guys that go, should they seek help as well?

I thought we were here to share information, which Jeop does, not to make judgements.

I guess it's his constant reminder of 'I did her' over and over.  He's always 'first' in line for every new Eros girl, and reminds everyone he was first in line.  

I guess it's the constant bragging/gloating/harping or whatever you want to call it that is my issue with him.  

Yes, some see just as many, if not more women than he does, although I doubt anyone sees more new ones than he does, but it's simply the ego I can't get past.

I really don't care what he does. And as I'm sure you've noticed, I don't rag on anyone else.  I don't find anyone with as huge an ego as his nor do I find anyone as condescending as he is.

Maybe others (maybe most) find him to be the king of all studs and he's God.  Well, I'm not in that circle and doubt I'd ever be.  When I joined TER, I was reverent towards him as most everyone else was.  And I'd posted things he responded to politely enough.  But something changed and he became clearly hostile towards me and I just started seeing him in a different, less flattering light.

Not isolated but what I took as bragging was his reminder he was off to do the Lindsey gang bang today.  Did I really care? Nope. Did he need to remind everyone ?  I guess that's the issue.

Go look thru his posts and how many 'well, i already did her even though she only arrived yesterday' posts are there.  It's like he's got a compulsion to BE FIRST.  And he's clearly got to keep his title.  

Several times, he's posted he was tired of it, and would retire or slow down, but in reality, as with any addict who can't break free, he's simply increased his proclivities and sees more women than before.  He'll hit 300 in 1/2 the time from 100-200.  Who knows.. He'll whiz past 300 and hit 400 in 2 months.

Ultimately, as to why? I don't really know.  He's fingernails on a blackboard to me.  I see every single post he writes as self-serving, self-centered and yes, bragging.

Ironically, it's not about $, but it could be.  Even if I won the lottery tomorrow and could afford to do the same as him, I'd not want to. Personally, I simply couldn't imagine myself getting naked with so many strange women, putting on a new condom daily, playing for an hour and leaving.  I just would find it really old.  I've only met a few women since I've joined TER.  I leave each time with a hollow, empty feeling, and wonder what I could have better spent that $$$ on.  I can't even fathom what it would be like doing it almost every day.

This thread is already on page 2.. it's sort of almost a private thing now as most people don't scan too far off page 1.. It'll be buried on page 3 soon and hardly anyone but the few who care will read it anymore.

This is a catharsis for me.  Probably pisses him off, but it's my therapy.  If I sat and listened to his self-effacing drivel all day, I'd go crazy..

--jb