Hey guys, I have been researching few providers, and I finally found what I want, the problem is, how do I get the appointment the first time. I email 2 providers, but I didn't get reponse. I preffer initiate contact by email,(english is my second language, and it sound horrible trough the phone) rather than phone. What infomation should I include in my email to get response? I know I will be quite nervous the first 5 minutes, do you guys now any providers that can deal with first timers? I'm looking for BBBJTC and CIM is really a big plus. I leave in central PA, so my first choice would be Baltimore, Philadelphia, and DC, and I really preffer incall. I thnak you in advance for any info and your time.If everything goes nice, I think I will be making monthly, or every two months relaxation visits.
Thanks again.
PS I'm 27, do you think that may have effect reponses I get from the ladies?

I too prefer to make initial contact via e-mail. If they don't list an e-mail address, I just skip-over their ad. Even with those that do have an address I'm batting 50/50 with responses. I have an e-mail folder titled "Non-Responders" that's got quite a few unanswered e-mails in it. I figured that if they don't answer their e-mails, their in-person service wouldn't be much better, so that folder is pretty much my black-list.

I've had others that responded to my "ice-breaker" email by sending back what amounted to a form-letter response. I didn't consider that much better than no response at all (how many seconds out of your life does it take to write back with a semi-cordial response?). Due to $ considerations and my very short leash, I can only hobby once-per-month, so I really need a bit of e-mail contact with the lady to minimize the chance that we won't click or that she's the flighty type that will no-show on me.

I'd say just move on to your next choices. It's their loss. There are plenty of beautiful providers out there that will answer your e-mails (provided you're a gentleman in what you write).

As far as being nervous goes -- don't sweat it. It gets easier each time.


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L, I just wanted to respond to one thing which you said.  That was about your "Non Responder List" of emails.  About 90% of the time, I would have to agree with you.  However, in that other 10% are the very good providers who don't respond to just one email because they are so busy and can be selective.  The best case-in-point that I can think of is: Ashana.  She is perennially difficult to get an initial response from (and is almost impossible to reach by phone).  She is just SO BUSY.  I believe part of it is that such a provider wants to see how serious you are (since all providers get a lot of bogus initial contacts).  If you look at the various reviews of Ashana (including mine) you will see the near constant theme regarding how difficult she can be to get ahold of (but how it is MORE than worth it if you PERSIST).

  So, how can you tell the difference between the 10% and the 90%?  Well the same way you can (to a certain extent) foretell the difference between providers in general.  You got it, because you are IN that resource, TER.  And, this discussion board is invaluable to that regard.  Best of all, you don't have to wait to see about applicable posts about the provider you may have in question.  Just post your question about her out HERE and you will get plenty of response...

...you caught me being inconsistent by using Ashana as an example: She was just WAY TOO HOT to go on my non-responders list.

I am sure that you're right about that 10% being great providers, but my blocks of free time are few and far between, so I just don't have the time to chase anybody down. I've also thought that if a lady has enough contacts coming in that she can ignore (for whatever reason) a potential customer or two, well, she really doesn't *need* my business. I don't mean that as a dig -- just that I'm sure there are some wonderful, underrated ladies out there who get less in the way of contacts than do others and who might be genuinely happy to have a new client (even a bald one).  

Well remember Lue, the lord only made a few perfect heads.  The REST he put hair on...  That CLEARLY has to make MY head flawed, but then everybody here all ready KNEW that...LMAO

To all of you that reply, thanks a lot, you guys are awesome, I( don't know how can I repay you, except being an active memebr of this "community". MagicalLizzy - thank you for the tip, I will definitly look into it, and maybe more tna look "into it"
thanks again.