Because of TER's posting rules, you cannot post too much info about the lady and you have to follow it up with a regular review which will contain the info listed in the mini and more.

I am not sure about the functionality of them. I understand how a mini can be more efficient getting out the word of a great lady sooner than a normal review would. But that efficiency is then nullified by the reduncance of it.

Personally, if a gentleman has a great time with me and writes a great review, I am pleased because I know I made him feel that way. However, whether I find out about his feelings in a review or in a phone call/e-mail to me later is just as good. Actually, now that I think about it the personal message is one I value more. I guess I am just a romantic like that.

As well, another related question...How many of you guys actually ask a lady after a session if she would like to be reviewed or not?

Modified for typos.


-- Modified on 5/20/2006 10:05:53 AM

Mini reviews are reserved for VISITING ladies...ladies who have a limited amount of time here.  So, if we like them, a mini-review allerts other hobbiests.
Minis are not for ladies who are non-visitors, altthough some hobbiests still try to put minis up of local ladies.
I always ask if I can submit a review...I ask in a complementary way.
I do not ask and do not submit reviews if I have not had a favorable response from the provider...unless I get ripped off!!

By the time a review goes up, the lady may be
gone.  This holds even more for newer or less
reviewed ladies.

And the mini review is not for you - it's for
fellow hobbiers.

Good point, Frankie!
The review is for you, me and fellow hobbiests...not for providers, individually or collectively.

By advertising on this or other hobby related sites a person puts themself on a semi-public display.  I figure if I stick to the facts I am merely engaging in the exchange of information which is why these places exist to begin with.  For example, if you post an ad that says "lusty GFE in heat and waiting for you."  I may come see you based on this info.  Then I come back here and I can say "yes boys, she is a lusty GFE, but I'm not sure if she's really ovulating at this point."    What happens is you post information, and I confirm it by writing a review.  It allows others to make more informed choices based on the information out there.  

Part of the reason why 12 guys will post a mini of a new girl in town over a 48 hour span has a lot to do with "locker room chat."  Some of us can never be expected to grow up.  So despite the fact that we paid for it, we still want to run back to the locker room (this place) and talk about "yeah, I scored last night."  And then we all hi-five each other.  As much as I may try to explain it, chances are, most women will have trouble understanding it.  Then again, men will never be able to figure out why women feel the need to haul so much shit around in their purses.

...sometimes you have a touring chick who is well reviewed and has been in the game for a while.  Sometimes I'll submit a mini that starts with "so and so: revisited."  The rules generally prohibit the posting of multiple reviews which I see as a good thing.  The only way you can post additional reviews is if something substantial changes about the encounter on a return visit (i.e. she offers greek when greek wasn't an option before.)  Even in cases like that, I usually pass on writing a review.  So I'll just post a new mini and move on.  Other times the well reviewed girl is in town but the spotlight is on jeopcon's new brazilian flavor of the week.  The mini serves as a way to remind folks that if they can't see the new chick, there's an old favorite who may be available, and she's still doing an outstanding job.  So if the old favorite hasn't had a new review in a few months, the mini can spark some renewed interest.

When a gentleman first told me "I will leave a review on TER for you" I scratched my head and said "What's that?". By the time I discovered TER (and reviews in general), I already had reviews on more than one site.

So let me ask this (to everyone), if a lady has no reviews and is a non-poster, will you still review her?

If she asks you NOT to review her, will you respect her wishes?

Most of the ladies I see now are well reviewed and no need for me post on them. I will ask the lady if she want me to write her a review..If she say no, I won't bother. I also don't write reviews on ladies that I had a semi-good time with. They were ok but if I can't say something good about them, why bother..

BTW; my ego is well grounded where I don't have to kiss and tell everything..lol I keep certain thing to myself and I don't need group approval.

I don't read a review if the provider isn't on my radar.  There are just too many.  The mini-reviews sometimes puts someone on my radar that wasn't before.  Ecspecially the visiting providers.

If a provider has no reviews and is a non-poster, I will post a review if I think other people are interested in her.

There have been a couple of providers who asked me not to post reviews. They don't want details because of previous LE problems or expected things in sessions. Sometimes they don't want to be associated with review sites because people on the site promote things they consider unsafe.

I saw a provider yesterday who told me that she does not need reviews.



-- Modified on 5/20/2006 4:27:51 PM

Without the reviews, I wouldn't be here, or likely a hobbyist.

For someone to be seen who had no reviews, it takes a special hobbyist to venture into a land no man has reviewed before - not for the faint of heart. But there are fortunately a few out there who brave new lands for others to follow – if it is worth the trip and not  TOFTT.

Unless she specifically asks not to be reviewed - it's very likely, and highly recommended by other hobbyist, that you post a review.

If I am told not to review, the only reason I wouldn't respect her wishes is if she lied by posting fake pictures or was an agency bait and switch, if she attempted an up-sell services, was a rip-off, or is seriously bad in bed, and I mean seriously - something like my first wife would be enough to make me want to ward off other hobbyist from having to waste the time and $$$.

If I know the lady doesn't want a review here I won't post one. I don't ask but some I know don't like the details given. If she request that I don't write a review I don't. If I seen her more than once I won't post unless there is some major change in her session.

The reviews here are a little more graphic than I like but that is what is expected here, so I do it as best I can. My reviews in the past were totally different. One review is STILL posted on one of the ladies website and is five years old. I may tell a story this week, we'll just see how the session goes

I agree with the use of the mini as a note to fellow hobbist about a special visiting lady that will be here a short time and others need to knoiw about. It's like letting folks you know about a good deal on gas. It's still gas but maybe it is super 93 proof for the price of 87.

I will not do a review on someone who ask me not to, unless in her ad she is misrepresenting herself and I want to warn others. In fact my ATF asked me not to and I have not. And I do see her whenever she is in the area.

I'll write something regardless

Alerting guys on this board was faster than waiting for a review approval.  That's the only reason I do it.

If a lady asks NOT to be reviewed then I honor those wishes.  Now I may still provide necessary information to those I know and trust b/c but I don't publically post out of respect.  

Now that rule only applies in certain instances, like if a lady has chosen not to have reviews done on her and sometimes this is expressed on the site or via phone before the meeting takes place.  In other instances, say a rip off provider or absolutely horrible service that is a different situation.  If she does not want a review to hide inexcusable behavior that is a horse of a different color. While I may not slam the provider I will let it be known that her service was a bit short by my standard. That is only fair to others who may be interested in seeing the lady.

FloridaMissy asked me not to post a review of her. I respected her wishes.

Why wouldn't some providers want a review written of them?  Ecspecially an ATF that knows you will praise hor to the high heavens.

I have a love/hate relationship with reviews.
On one hand they help other know about  my services without me getting into detail over the phone or e-mail.

on the other hand, reviews for one, are so subjective that a guy who may not like a girl that looks like me will come see me just because and then give me a medicore review. As well, some guys lie or post completely phony reviews. I dislike how into detail gentleman go without mentioning what I think was important, (i.e. they talk too much about the location of my incall and never mention how nice it is and all the amenities I offer). Finally, reviews sometimes then to degrade the girls. I believe true worth of a GFE provider is about the whole package...personality, conversation and sensuality. Guys often just go on looks and if he got a BBBJ and multiple pops to judge/rate a lady. If that's all he wanted he could have just stuck with CL. Most of the higher end girls are educated, sophisticated, charming and interesting. That's why they ask for top dollar.

are too slow, are less private, stay around long after you wish you hadn't written them, etc, etc, etc.

It seems quicker for visiting Ladies and If I had  great time I ask if I can submit a review. It is advertising so I assume they will and have never had a no.