so what is people's consensus on bareback blowjobs and eating chicks out? i am new at this and surprised to read so many girls give bb bjs (and swallow?!?!?) and that guys daty. i know the risk for hiv is nil (at best, low for the girl swallowing--that is insane), but what about other stuff?

Jeopcon is right, but believe me, you can catch stuff from BBBJ.  Maybe even kissing.  Not sure about DATY.  There's lots of good stuff on the web from reliable sources, but go to Planned Parenthood if you don't want to ask your physician.