I'm fairly new to the hobby and I was just thinking that it would be nice to have a regular girl come over a couple times a month.  

Has anyone ever had a situation like that?  If so how did it work out?

I'm just thinking it would be nice not to have to worry about all the other variables in this hobby.  

For over two years I saw someone almost weekly.

Just don't get too close and start doing things for her that you shouldn't.

Some people like variety, while others like stability. Whatever floats your boat.

agree with Sophie. I have many regular clients I see on a weekly basis or a monthly basis, no strings attached. Its all about each other and good company, great conversation and an awesome time spent together. Keep it like that and have fun, and just keep in mind, dont start paying her bills for her, then you run into trouble LOL.

ride the wave. also depends on your attention span. if she can hold it for a long time that's a score for the both of you. if not, it's a big ocean with a lot of fish in it.

I agree with Sophie.  Having an ongoing "relationship" can work great for both parties.  The excitement is there without the worry.  New discoveries can be made with a level of comfort.  BUT, it has to be with someone that you like and would be friends with in the "outside" world.  Most importantly, you have to have open communication - reminding each other that it is a business relationship.  I have become very close to several people in this way - but always make sure that our intentions are clear.  While I care deeply for them, I don't plan on dating or marrying them!  lol

Good luck,

Kari

I think this is the ideal situation, provider-friends.  I've had it significantly expand the dimentions of the relationship while keeping everything inside the proper bounds.  It's about being real friends, not real SOs.

Not for everyone, and not with everyone.  But nothing at all wrong with the right provider.