I have no references because im a newbie. I have provided my name and employer as asked. I haven't done anything illegal so I have no problem with that. (although nervous at first). It seems they want references. I had one ask for a LinkedIn account to which I created one.
Haven't had any luck thus far. Have provided info that has been asked for minus the references obviously. No luck though. Thanks in advance.
I'm still a bit of a newbie myself so I feel your pain. You are just going to have to provide them with whatever they're looking for. If you feel uncomfortable with what they're asking for, move on to the next one. Pretty easy
As it relates to information pertaining to me, here is what I include.
-My name, obviously (the name that I go by, and not my real name)
-two provider references, sometimes I include four
-my telephone number, they have my email address obviously
-My TER handle, some will PM me to check if its who I say I am. They will see if I have reviews and such.
-Datecheck handle
-Preferred411 handle
I do not give out my employment info, I do not give out my real name, I do not give out any other information that I think will jeopardize my career and personal life. Can you list what information you have provided, like I did on top. It would be nice to know, that way, we can critique your method, and possibly give you some advice. Was it something that you said in the email also? Please, let us know what you said in the email too if possible. Also, what is the allocated time, that is, how long did you waited for a no response? Thanks!
I have no references because im a newbie. I have provided my name and employer as asked. I haven't done anything illegal so I have no problem with that. (although nervous at first). It seems they want references. I had one ask for a LinkedIn account to which I created one.
It is tough to make the break through. Start with someone known with reviews. You may get plenty of no's. Follow the info advice from McDonald00 and you can not go wrong. More than that and you may cross a line that you may regret. Safety is priority for both you and the provider, remember that. In the mean time, cold showers, internet porn and you regular supply of punn with have to get you through!
for any provider to ask for your real name and employer info AND references. There's no need to give someone info establishing a link between your real identity and illegal conduct. You need to decide exactly what info you are comfortable giving out and then seek out someone who is comfortable with that level of information. You may decide that you're not comfortable giving out any information. If that's the case, there are plenty of "two-call" options out there. And the percentage that are worthwhile is probably comparable to the percentage of heavily-screened options that are worthwhile.
There are lots of fish in the sea and those who ask for the most info are not necessarily the best options. Screening doesn't exist to protect you.
There's nothing wrong with a provider having screening requirements. And there's nothing wrong with you deciding that you are not comfortable with them.
-My name, obviously (the name that I go by, and not my real name)
-two provider references, sometimes I include four
-my telephone number, they have my email address obviously
-My TER handle, some will PM me to check if its who I say I am. They will see if I have reviews and such.
-Datecheck handle
-Preferred411 handle
I do not give out my employment info, I do not give out my real name, I do not give out any other information that I think will jeopardize my career and personal life. Can you list what information you have provided, like I did on top. It would be nice to know, that way, we can critique your method, and possibly give you some advice. Was it something that you said in the email also? Please, let us know what you said in the email too if possible. Also, what is the allocated time, that is, how long did you waited for a no response? Thanks!
P411 does not keep any submitted documents, so I prefer it over the other services. t not allow any escort/ agency know what you really do. A lot of folks in the DC area have some type of government or law involvement; therefore, they have to very discreet about what they do. Using P411, TER handle and a couple references to get verified is the way to go.
However, like I said, one's info being on the escort service does not prove anything, especially with so many identity thieve and SCAMS in DC - the latter in which girls only come and talk to you and take your money
I consider myself "easy screener", i.e I will accept either references, or verification site handles with minimum of 2 recent OKs.
However, if someone has none of the above, they would have to give real world information. Couple hundred dollars not worth the risk of LE or hospital.
Lina
I believe that's enough to join Date-Check (gentlemen, correct me if I'm wrong). Admittedly it's not as good as having Date-Check with provider vouches, but it's a start and it might definitely get you in the door with some ladies who have lighter screening. Participating on the boards here at TER also helps, it gives ladies a sense of your opinions and attitudes, and shows that you do have a bit of a history in this, as opposed to looking for appointments with nothing on your TER username at all.
you may have to step outside of your comfort zone a little to get the girl you want. Just make sure she's okay with being a reference for you and then you won't have to give out your info to anyone else.
Because a provider won't necessarily want to even address the question of being a reference until after she sees the person. However, there is more of a back door way to do this by trying to locate ones that have issues a reasonable amount of while list referrals and then try to schedule with them.