I'm at the point of one and done or PSE appointments.
the mind fuck is very possible, or common, with GFE providers.
Back in April I had an appointment with a lady I'd seen before. We did not keep much email contact on previous meetings. So the next month just like every month, she sends an email that she's gonna be in town in a few weeks. I tell her I can't. she emails again a week later. I say I'm not sure yet, maybe. I'm thinking maybe she REALLY does want to see ME. She emails again a few days later a very flattering message.My schedule had cleared so I set the appointment for the following week. While talking to her during the session she tells me she had a bunch of cancellations.
Then it hits me. So THAT"S why she was persistent. Hmmm.
GFE?, No thanks.
Posted By: Megandeville
No this isnt the typical post debating silly acronyms and their meaning. No this is more like a reality check on the term girl friend experience.
You dont really want that do you? Because the scenario there is something much different if you ask me. Pardon my interpretation, but anything that involves an hour of more of hot passionate fun that leaves you satisfied and free to leave without commitment is more like PSE.
GFE is more like this:
Pre Date: You are in a fierce competition against other men where the odds are not in your favor as you pine over a woman that is just beyond your reach.
Date 1: Congratulations. Maybe its your looks, maybe its your money, maybe she was drunk, but somehow you got past all the other guys and her cock-block friends and scored a date. Now its time to impress her. Dinner, talking, maybe a movie. It doesn't really matter, you're paying and its more like a sexually frustrating job interview.
Date 2: Second job interview. You're still walking a fine line and maybe you got to hold hands. You still pay.
Date 3: Now your texting, e-mailing, contemplating sending flowers. All kinds of things. Little head is working over time and trying to figure out how to close the deal.
Date 4 and beyond: Its marital purgatory. Your not legally obligated...yet but whether you know it or not, your obligated and this is time, work, and money. Get used to it.
Beyond: The romance is great, like new car smell. You cant stop thinking about her. You have pet names for each other. Your friends are disgusted with you. You're on your way to the institution my friend. The marital one. By the way, prisons are institutions too and it also takes lawyers and money to get out.
So thats GFE. It takes hours, commitment, sacrifice, and will leave you mind-f**ked. One day you will wake up in a cold dark cell wishing for some PSE!
So lets call it what it is.
Tune in next time when we talk about FWB!
XXOO
Megan Deville
