My goal was always to be in CONTROL of my own destiny. From whom i exclude to whom i include. Advertising opens too many doors for my taste. I went strictly by word of mouth. From MY MOUTH came the word.

I no longer provide. Too many horror stories on these boards. Too much egotism. I settled in with one of my clients, who was,and is still,my best friend.

If you can control the urge for greater remuneration you can have a positive experience. Superficiality can grab you and RUN. Not for me.

It served it's purpose(getting me through school)now i am done.

I won't entertaining responses. Sorry

to me on how we hobbyists find these UTR providers, but I am told CL and BP are the best resources.  That, and discreet referrals by hobbyist friends.

In case anyone is wondering, I would love to meet an upscale UTR lady who provides sophistication in a GFE package and model looks ... and I'm willing to pay for this privilege.  PM me if interested.

Very, very positive.  The less they're on the boards, the more I'm interested.

The safety and low volume aspects are premium qualities.

I can never seem to find any of them.

One way that has worked for me in the past was to see a particular escort or small agency on a relatively regular basis.  Once they know you are a good client they will usually alert you to a "friend" or part timer who is interested in a little work but doesn't want to take on a large client load.  

I have met a couple ladies like this and I found it to work well.  Also, consider that some ladies start out advertising...get overwhelmed and quickly retreat to the shadows just keeping in touch with the few decent guys they managed to meet.  So they are not always gone but have gone UTR.

Outside of that you will simply have to be willing to make many, many review postings and interact here on the boards until one of the more well connected individuals trusts you enough to share.  

Best of luck!

I've had the privilege of meeting several UTR providers mainly by reference of other clients.  They are low volume and very selective, but are very, very nice.

They normally don't post on any of the typical sites, but they are out there.

I only hope that I have the privilege to meet more.  The key is that you respect their privacy as they respect yours.

Positive.

They are UTR for a reason.

I had one UTR provider that we shared some time for awhile.  The pros are low volume which, IMHO, resulted in a more passionate, GFE squared session as the provider was just as horney as you.  The cons are while you almost have to anticipate paying a premiun above the industry/local average this may get old to you as it did me due the provider getting complacent when it came to keeping her "game" in tip top shape and/or the thing that made me go to her in the first place.  Less candlelight, less lingerie, more flats and less heels, 3 days at the gym instead of 5 days, etc.

Finally, the thing for me that the hobby provides is variety.  So while a UTR has it's advantages you'll probably hit the wall before long and want to get back to the 33 flavors.

If a lady can be found on the internet, has a website or reviews.she is NOT UTR.

There is a line of reasoning that worries that the review and referral white list system increases the risks of documenting connections. All it needs is some fool to start spilling their guts under duress and things unravel.

Obviously this POV is not shared by folks who are active here but it isn't crazy. It is just a POV that evaluates the risks and rewards differently.

The couple I know are fantastic.  Plus, its like being in a secret little club inside a bigger club.  Sort of like Skull & Bones for you Yalies out there....lol.