I only need the Ladies undivided attention in the bedroom, but I understand where you're coming from the flirting can be fun.

Before, attentativeness; during, attentiveness  If a lady knows my likes (I mostly see just a couple ladies that become regulars), she cultivates them

Before the session:

1) Reliability- I'm not really one to toft. I have in the past, but even then it was with the recommendation of another lady.

2) Picture- Come on, we guys are visual creature.

3) Pricing- I still have bills to pay.

4) Location- I tend to avoid driving into D.C.

During the session:

1) Attitude- You already hit this one.

2) Foreplay- I'm one of the rare guys who tends to enjoy the foreplay more than the actual intercourse. Now this isn't to
                 say that I'm some kind of genius at it. And I'm the first to admit that I could use so extra practice/training.
                 But I enjoy kissing and fondling and daty and such. I get off on my partner enjoyment.

After session:

1) Non perfumed Soap- Please don't send me out smelling like a rose garden. Its unmanly and highly noticeable.

Of course the performance and overall attitude is of primo importance, but the characteristic that moves it from good to great, or great to even greater, is non-rush, i.e. non-clock-watching, i.e. spending a few extra minutes lounging around. Manipulative as it may be, sticking around a few minutes extra, or inviting me to, says to me that she is liking her time with me enough to do so. That makes me feel good. When I feel good, I feel generous. And I'll probably be much more likely to come back than the person who smoothly orchestrates finishing up in 55 minutes then is out the door at exactly 60. My ATF, when we were getting to know one another, would routinely spend 90 minutes to 2 hours for a one hour appointment, mostly in intro conversational time before, and in cuddle and convo time afterward. That was a lot, but I assure you her generosity has been more than handsomely rewarded since by my "above the call of duty" generosity. Ladies, schedule your hour, but spend 1:15 or 1:20 even, and I assure you it will yield better reviews, more repeat business, and more generosity in the long run!

Start the session on time - many of us are out at lunch, or if before or after work, need to minimize the "gap" in our schedule during which we are unavailable by cell or telephone.  When you consider that a 1 hour session also invovles driving time (to and from), time to park and trade calls/text re the room number, and that not wanting to be late, most of us arrive 15-20 minutes early, when a session is delayed, it turns a 90-120 minute absence into an even longer session.  I've quit seeing some favorites simply because they never were on time, always 15-20 minutes late to call me with the room number.  If I am late, I don't expect you to extend the session, but if I'm on time, I do expect to start on time.

BEFORE the session:

1) Attitude - I hate persona's that are indifferent; Hood-rat; Too sterile/business like; Too over-the-top (every sentence begins and ends with "baby," "sweety," "honey," "Darling."

2) Picture - Agreed (but most photoshop, airbrush and all combinations of deception).

3) Pricing - I still have bills to pay.  AGREED!!

4) Appointment Set-Up - Easy to arrange and schedule; Too much verification (yes I understand the value and need for verification) but when it gets burdensome and in the way of making appointment set-up stress free, I pass.

5) Location- Convineint to Dwntwn and/or Dupont or Tysons ( I took Rockville and BWI off the list).

DURING the session:

1) Attitude - AGREED! You already hit this one and see above.

2) Foreplay - Strongly AGREE!  You must be old like me where the journey is more important than destination.

3) Mood - "Sensualness" i.e. Candle lite; music (with TV on CNN or preferred Reality show is not a good mood setter).

4) Dress - Attire is at least in same category as what you are wearing in your Ad Pics. Sweat pants and tank top don't get it.

AFTER session:

1) Non perfumed Soap - Not an issue as I bring my own toiletree bag.

Before:
Good communication in the time leading up to our meeting.  I realize this works two ways...I want her to be "ok" with me as I am with her.  Pictures are a bonus, especially if I have seen the lady before.  

During:
I agree with the undivided attention comment.  Checking my profile on verification sites shows interest in pleasing me.  Again, communication is important.  I really appreciate good oral skills.

Before:
Friendly demeanor, well spoken, flirtatious

During:
Sensual, sexy, playful, magnetic and free-flowing

After:
Warm, gentle, present and easy-going

Viagra.

BEFORE: I make sure I show up sober, squeaky clean, neatly dressed,
and with everything out of my system (lol)  

I'd hope that the girl took her time to stay clean as well.  Flirting with me really hypes things up and increases the anticipation.

If she's gonna make me wait at the lobby for over 30 minutes, well I'ma be tempted to head to the bar for 1 drink.

During: Her undivided attention, hygiene, and a good hollywood style GFE.
No fiddling with phone. Nobody else in the room. No animals, especially cats.  
No ex boyfriends knocking. No cleaning lady knocking.
Clean room. Clean sheets. No skid marks on the sheets.

After: Getting a drink...  just one, maybe two. Depends on how good she was.

-- Modified on 9/24/2012 11:31:01 PM

Let's face it; the best ones are all good actresses.  I am paying for a good performance,  and usually get it.  Occasionally there is a real connection, but that doesn't always translate into great sex.  Sometimes it just means that we have a lot in common, enjoy the same things, or just hit it off.  The really good ones laugh at my bad jokes.

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