hygiene, Hygiene, HYGIENE. Consideration of our time. Polite, respectful, courteous both through correspondence before meeting and upon meeting.  
Just to name a few, but most importantly, DO NOT treat us like a piece of meat, a machine, or a bunny rabbit. Catch my drift???

Was that too blunt???

hygiene, Hygiene, HYGIENE. Consideration of our time. Polite, respectful, courteous both through correspondence before meeting and upon meeting.  
Just to name a few, but most importantly, DO NOT treat us like a piece of meat, a machine, or a bunny rabbit. Catch my drift???

Was that too blunt???

Providers, what is the best way for a hobbyist to make a positive impression when you first meet?

Couldn't help but give my opinion......so here goes. Both Hobbyist and Provider engage in activity that is beneficial to both. In my experience, the Providers I have met with have been well presented and "Fresh". Now think about it this way......If a provider was, in your opinion, un-clean and perhaps had an odor you were not comfortable with, my guess would be that you would not be to anxious to engage in the "intimacies" of the moment.......As such, reverse the role.......Now think about it !
In my experience a mutually beneficial arrangement is only enhanced and more enjoyable when both parties are on the same page.......So manscape, shower and dress nice.......because the provider will !