I think most reviews, including mine, are very self explanatory so what are some reasons for PM'ing reviewers? I received a few emails from current friends about some one who Ive never met is asking questions via PM but I dont know what they could possibly ask that isnt in my reviews already. I dont want to ask my friends because they didnt offer to tell me. My face is obscured in my pics but all of my reviews talk about my face, my personality is constantly brought up in my reviews, my body type is clear from my pics, stats and review comments and my website is up to date so...whats up?
No they didnt share their PMs, they shared their concern. Im pretty sure you can get banned from TER for sharing PMs so I dont want to put them or myself in that position. I simply thanked them for emailing me
....So that is likely why clients feel entitled to asking for even MORE information than is present in the reviews.
I would hope that reviewers act with responsibility and consideration to honest providers who provide their service as advertised though.
Personally, I know my legal name, former residential static incall location, unblurred pictures etc. have circulated through reviewers and back channel PMers. I don't appreciate it in the least and I've got a pretty long memory regarding the guilty clients.
All you can do as a provider is try to reconcile it in your head...if you're publicly listed and reviewed, it just comes with the territory.
You are right inmoderation Thanks, thats kinda what I was getting at...if guys ask about personal info. The friends who told me seemed concerned but didnt tell me why(prob because of TER rules) I appreciate your feedback and kisses back at ya : )
There are a lot of things that might not get mentioned in a review or in the provider's profile. Also things change. How many providers are listed as natural under pussy but their first review was 4 years ago and they are now completely shaven. Or did not have breast implants when their first review was written but then got enhancements. Also, some guys are into things that most reviewers don't touch on in reviews. Search the board for 411 requests on puffy nipples or various specific ethnicities that aren't offered as choices in a provider profile.
Honestly, most reviews aren't as descriptive as they should be with regards to specifics of a provider's appearance ( such as pubic hair style or puffy nipples) and focus more on the activities that took place. No reason to be alarmed if guys are PMing your clients for more specific information.
I have had PM's from total strangers asking for certain other info not found in a review. Like are a Ladies feet pretty. To which I responded yes, she has two of them with 10 toes total. Another was about a blurred face and if she was cute. Again I replied Yes.
Then sometimes certain people cross the line and ask for info that should not be shared, even if you knew it. Some guys are just curious. Some banned guys are stalkers and want info on someone they can never see again for an appt. Some guys PM a reviewer to compare notes, as they did not get treated to the same services that previous reviewers reported. YMMV.
It was interesting recently to look at the national DNS list for DC. I saw a few TER handles that I recognize from this forum.
Sometimes the PM's are from a newbie that is still learning manners. I am sure the more experienced TER guys with hundreds of reviews get lots of newbie PM's.
Thats what I can share with you. If I had reviewed you, I would not have a problem telling you that someone (and name them) was asking questions about you. I would PM those fellas back and see if someone is asking for personal info or bad stuff like that.
One reason for contacting a hobbyist who has reviewed a provider is a discrepancy between the profile and recent reviews. One instance of this, which happens with some frequency, is that the provider's profile indicates BBBJ while the reviews (at least the recent ones) say CBJ. I have on a prior occasion written to the reviewer and inquired at whose insistence the CBJ occurred. Some hobbyists will require covered even if the provider would do untranslated. If the gentleman (rather than the provider) requested the cover, then I will be much more willing to visit that provider in the event that I am seeking GFE.
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