when she's faking it?

in a P4P situation.. I am guilty myself, but in my defense I was 23, and only a bigger dummy would get butt hurt over a truthful answer.

Most of us make the ladies cum 2-3 times easy!

reason  I ask is because i just read a review where the guy crushed her for being fake. every other review she has is excellent. so he takes her to task not for her looks but her "performance". so how the hell does he know and not all the others  she was acting.

I don’t know what the guy said in the review, but he might have been tipped off by overacting. I’ve had a few situations where the response was out of proportion to what I was doing. I knew myself it was nothing special. Then when I stumbled onto something that did work, the reaction was different.  

When, after 20-30 minutes of DATY, a woman's back arches more than you thought it could, the rock hard clit softens at last, she shudders for thirty seconds, she needs a break for a few minutes before she is ready to continue, she thanks you from her heart, and she wants you to come see her again, the odds are pretty good that she had a big O.

I've had a lovely lady make every conceivable sound known to mankind, with a bunch of "oh baby"s mixed in - all while she was just giving me a handjob!  Kind of distracting. I wanted to just tell her to relax and be herself (because she really was a sweetheart), but in that situation I think it's probably best to just go with the flow and let her do her thing the best way she knows how.

As Curly noted if you read reviews we all give them multiple orgasms. So they must be faking it at a minimum most of the time. Isn't it enough these beautiful ladies make us feel like kings.

I wouldn’t say stop asking period because sometimes you want to know because you want them to have a good time, too (at least a good enough time to take they’re not thinking about their mortgage the whole time) but definitely never ask HER. It puts the lady on the spot and you probably won’t fully trust a “yes” anyway.

a review would you put that part in there?

makes sense and sort of my approach.  

reaction I suppose as you don't often read about fake O's in reviews.

...such as, "come for me baby, come on, yeah, I'm gonna lick/fuck you 'til you come," then she's definitely faking.  

that REALLY adds to my enjoyment of the date. A shared great experience just can't be beat!

most of the time, if you are paying attention to her. There are symptoms of an "O" that are easily faked (the moans, the deep breathing, voluntary movements) and there are signs of an "O" that are not fakeable (facial and chest flushing, dilated pupils, abdominal ridging, increased lubrication, involuntary contractions).

To add, saying 'cum for me' and 'I'm going to fuck you until you cum' will dissolve all chances of me cumming. It puts on too much pressure and I lose concentration. I'm usually really silent when I'm close - so don't talk to me lol.

My ego .its about.how you tell its. Not real.  and if you would continueif she were to tell you.      

Faking other stuff is wors

Now I understand your first post. Absolutely with you now.

when Steve Martin's girlfriend is dumping him in a nasty way and tells him she faked all her orgasms. She does a fake "Oh god yeah" thing and says "Sounds familiar?" After she's gone, Steve Martin says "Yeah, well I faked all of my orgasms too!"

like when I'm tired and i just want to get it over with.