I think that a lot of guys are going to tell you "hell no I never do it!"
I think you have a lot of girls to choose from in this area and they all screen differently.
Some girls will see you after talking to you a few minutes on the phone and do nothing virtually no screening.
A lot of girls will see you with 2-3 recent references or your P411, Date-Check info.
And some girls won't see you without knowing exactly who you are.
And all of us are just doing what we think is the best thing to keep us safe.
I would say that as long as the girl has reviews and you really, really want to see her - give her the info she asks for. She really has no intentions of doing anything bad with it.
I can tell you just from my end that if someone wants to see me they are going to provide the screening information I ask for. And most of the time that includes their real name and a way to verify employment.
When you say all of your DL info do you mean like your name, photo and birthday or address and license number? I can't imagine someone needs your home address and license number especially if they aren't doing an outcall to your house.....