Old age will effect us all if we don’t meet death before we reach old age. Even the beautiful ladies here. One day, outside of the hobby, you will be talking to someone of the opposite sex and you’ll notice that they are looking through you not at you. You’ll notice that the opposite sex doesn’t glance at you as they once did when you walk by. Respect for the elderly is not the same with younger Americans as it is in some other countries, like China. Maybe that’s why one Asian lady wanted to marry me and take me home with her. LOL

I didn’t come to the hobby some twenty some years ago because I couldn’t find all the sex I wanted outside the hobby but for the fun of it, someone that had few limits and enjoyed sex as much as I did. But now I find it easier than working at it outside the hobby. My body doesn’t look my age, but my face is close and the professional ladies usually don’t mind. The semi-pros do on occasion. I have scanned Backpage, but don’t see any of those that are interesting because I’m not looking to just get off, I can do that by myself. What I look for is best described here as the GFE. Why? Because my mind doesn’t match my years on this planet. To coin the old phrase “I want to be kissed before I get fucked”. And to quote a Willie Nelson song, “One night of love don’t make up for six nights alone, but I rather have one, Lord because I’m flesh and bone”. I miss 'romance'! So, I settle for fake romance. If they're good at it, I'll stick with them, as a regular client. The pros get it the semi-pros don't.

So, what I look for is a lady that is fit and under forty. Why? because mentally I’m still there. I hope that all of the ladies and gentle men here cope with the aging process better than I have. I actually left the hobby ten years ago because I felt sorry for the ladies having to see me. I’m over that now, for the most part and I love you all for putting up with me and the rest of us.

I'm glad I do the work I do too because I enjoy and love riding the wave of chemistry that forms between me and my client. Sex is incredibly intimate, but so is everything else that happens. Some of my favorite moments in this industry is holding hands with a client on the street and trading private jokes to each other and the tenderness of us cuddling and him stroking my hair and back after the end of an appointment.

You make some interesting and alas, accurate  points. I confess to be hitting another big one Saturday..You know the number starts with an S and has more than 3 letters..I swear its true though I feel like I did when I was 25-30 and am in better shape due to serious gym routine and not enough alcohol I suspect..

I do get looks from women and I for sure am looking at them. Now this may be from pity on their part or my imagination. I dunno but I enjoy the illusion if thats whats going on here lol  ..Most people tell me  look 60 and this young kid bartender thought I looked his father's age who he said is 45-50..Seriously he said that..Probably BS in hopes of a bigger tip but what a shocker..lol OMG
As to sex vs romance. Ill take romance every time, the sex is the whip cream and cherry on top and I for sure prefer women over 25. No real age limit  on the high end..Side note..People would be stunned to learn the actual ages of some of the providers here. I learned last week a woman I thought was around 30 or so was 50. She just said so I didnt ask.. Must be diet and clean living..
Hope everyone enjoys their day! and never give in ...never..lol

As you reach a ‘old age’ men usually either get grumpy and fussy or mellow with the experience we’ve learned. My best living friend is grumpy old man and its hard to be around him.  
Now there has been some question about me and lack of confidence and I’m sure some think some of the things I’ve said over time here on the board are stupid. Well, I have since I started the ‘hobby’ wanted to be sure the lady I was with was a satisfied as I was. It started as trying to see them as satisfied as I was sexually, then it became more, the more we got to know each other. Sometimes that was listening on my part to their problems and helping when I could, mostly just by listening but sometimes more. That has been easy for me because I’ve always been a little empathetic. Now in my old age I’ve become a soft touch.
I’ve heard some stories that were really absurd over the years but I could usually sift through to the truth, don’t think I can now. Street walkers in Vegas have a bunch of lines, I've only heard them from one D.C. lady, I never took Vegas one up on an offer. In Vegas I made the call to the reviewed ladies or hit a ranch once. Most of the ladies I’ve seen in the D.C.  area are pretty straight and I have only run into two that weren’t. Both got a lot of money and I got little in return, one nothing in return, except trouble. I’ve helped some that were sincere and with a few became friends outside the hobby, not sex, just friends.  
So I guess what I’m saying is I’m one of the mellow guys that has mellowed to sucker. So, please don’t give me any sad stories and a pack of lies when we meet, I can’t afford it. Although I would probably still help if I could.
So for the older guys here where do you think you fall? And for those that are there yet, you’ve got something to look forward to. Where do you think you’ll fall? I don’t think the ladies will want to see your grumpy asses. So be nice.

I've mellowed. I'm less interested in the acrobatic, frenzied sexual exploits of my younger self. Nice memories but I was also driven by my getting what I wanted, when I wanted.

Now? Nah. The company is nice. Taking time to appreciate a beautiful woman and sharing sensual moments is more my speed.  I don't hobby nearly as much as I used to and I find myself taking days to decide who I want to see and for what type of sessions. Where I was once seeking providers 2 or 3 times per week, (it was less expensive back then) I'm probably down to once every 2 months or so. Life got busy and frankly I'm just not willing to shell out the dollars for a lady who might have a great website with beautiful photos and sells a great illusion.

I prefer the older, more mature, reputable ladies or those with old souls AND honestly, a really slow, sexy, sensual body rub with some extras can be better than a harried FS session with a high priced, young, tight whippersnapper.