after not seeing a provider( that you've already seen a few times before) for a few months?  

I too have been a little disappointed with repeat visits to the same lady. Had a great time the first time, a little less the second, and getting close to disappointed the third.

I think the problem is when a lady sees the same gent more then once she gets too comfortable and then gets lazy. This is not to be said for all providers because their are many of us that know how to treat our clients properly.  

I've been lucky enough to find a provider that I'm really into; to be honest, I've been seeing her for a year, and it's always incredible (cues Roy Orbison's "Pretty Woman")

Its not just up to the guys. The ladies seem to like the variation as well. We should both work to vary the experiences we encounter.

the same provider exclusively until  I feel something has changed. i don't think i could get to 20- 30 visits with the same lady but it does take a few times to tell if we're sexually compatible.  

and just for conversation.I thought she might just have been tired but she flaked on me a couple times after that and missed appointments etc.  I gave up and I now know we never really were a good fit.

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she never was so creative or in to you .. you know first time  ..it is always  excitement .. for man .. for her .. if she is high   volume a provider  you are one of them  and  given  the fact that there is low % of women who are true artists in sex .. so   it is a "work" and you well know men that you see working women .. so my answer is - start see a courtesans .. ( your GF from real life no different then working women - they  do not have sex drive and fantasies ..  just liking you mechanically and  giving you  mechanically they vagina s)  same .. all same or provider .. or  wife of  few years .. it is routine for women.. an then for you it is  not fan   answer is find inspirational women .. artists who will keep you on your toes  .. that all  not services .. not providing  nor not lover .. just ultimate complete freak in sex  and life .. then it  be ALWAYS fan  al

In the 15 or so years I've been engaged in this hobby, I've been lucky enough to find 3 ladies with whom I connected enough to see on a regular basis; even look forward to seeing almost as soon as I left her.  I also think that they truly enjoyed my company.  These meetings often became extended dates, overnights and trips.  My last such lady actually stopped seeing me because she sensed we were becoming TOO fond of each other.  Haven't found anyone like that since, and that was over 5 years ago.  I haven't even been able to find someone to whom I'm drawn to even repeat once, lately. So, enjoy those that make your motor run even while apart, because, IMHO, it doesn't happen often.

I've had to check myself several times, for getting too emotionally invested with two particular providers...I'm glad I didn't meet them outside of the hobby, or I'd be on my third marriage by now lol (-;

what an "ATF" really is.