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Re: Just additional information
Jxcwin 43 Reviews 41 reads
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That would be an interesting idea, instead of likes for reviews it would be cool to see which reviewers the rest of the community finds as accurate. The issue as always are the number of fake reviews and reviewers.

To me terms like gfe, pse, etc are mostly meaningless.  
Too many variables.  
Firstly everyone has different definitions. She might advertise gfe but is used to covered bj. Everywhere but the DC area this is normal, in my experience. She might advertise pse but to her that only means you can fuck her hard like in porn, but doesn't mean anything bare, or anal.
Secondly there is ymmv. Chemistry. No two encounters are the same. Things can happen between between people that hit it off. Or things may not happen as you might have hoped. When you are reading a review and it says "she doesn't kiss" it may be that the guy hasn't been to the dentist since before the pandemic. Other hygiene issues I'll leave to your imagination. Personal questions or savior attitudes can also dampen the mood.
So when someone asks me if one of my friends is gfe all these issues above are going through my head. Honestly, you looked at the profile, you found her/him intriguing, budget allowing just book and be your best self and great things can happen. Or great things may not, and you keep looking until you find that one you want to book regularly. Then they retire and you get to start all over again lol.
Finally, once you become a regular all the terms become even more meaningless.
Have fun!

Haha I agree! I’m slowly pulling away from using it because it seems to cause so much confusion!

I agree and can't you say this about anyone's review descriptions sans actual activities? These things are based on an individual's perception, so the watch phrase is and always will be "do your homework and proceed with caution".

Couldn't agree more. With all the terminology and the commodification of this industry people forget that at the end of the day every provider is a person. It's not like going to some fast food place we're every customer gets exactly the same service. To me the ymmv is actually the most useful term there is because neither the client or the provider knows what to expect when booking a session. I've had people pm upset because of reviews I posted that didn't match their experience. Lately, I've stopped posting reviews unless the provider or agency asks for it.

Some times I think people forget that this is all a very subjective activity. Most of the time they should probably approach each session as a TOFTT where the team is yourself. Not quite that bad and reviews can be helpful for many but some really seem to think they can find some objective truth and facts in reviews, then get upset when that isn't the case.

As you say most terms are meaningless in this indusrty.  A little research and effort cuts down on it being truly meaningless and a good idea about what's behind the door.    

Specifically, when I'm using this site, I exclude most providers that are under 8/8 unless there's an activity/look/environment that I'm seeking.  I look at the reviewers, try to sync any common providers we've seen and if our ratings are similar.

I truly wonder if TER impleminted a rating system on the reviewers how amusing that would be.  

That would be an interesting idea, instead of likes for reviews it would be cool to see which reviewers the rest of the community finds as accurate. The issue as always are the number of fake reviews and reviewers.

Well you do get the Like option on reviews (right? Or do I misremember.) Crude but offers a bit of insight. Not sure it is really all that helpful.

 
You already have all the threads about reviews people disagree with calling them fake, inflated, shill, hatchet jobs and often by people who have never even seen the provider. So I expect that type of behavior would persist in any open review. However I agree it would be amusing for a while.

 
The best review approach is likely the one you mention -- your own personal review of reviewer by finding providers you and the reviewer have seen in common. Now you start making a baseline for assessing all their other reviews in terms of decision-making value for other providers.

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