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Re: In my experience...Sex without desire is
earthshined 1503 reads
posted
1 / 21
just got back home from a DUD of a session. Guys, when

this happens to you do you usually give her another chance or just chalk it up to incompatibility?

StCroix 754 reads
posted
2 / 21
Why are you considering a seocnd session?

Are you looking for another DUD session?

I just move on. Fortunately for me I have only had a couple of DUD sessions

earthshined 681 reads
posted
3 / 21
Re: Why are you considering a seocnd session?

i'm asking YOU!

 
thanks
Posted By: StCroix
Are you looking for another DUD session?  
   
 I just move on. Fortunately for me I have only had a couple of DUD sessions.  
   
 

mr5mike 7 Reviews 676 reads
posted
4 / 21
In my experience...

I have repeated a couple of times in the past because I mistakenly thought it might have been my fault.  The women had great reviews or in one case, I had a great time once and then the second meeting was a dud, so I tried a third because again, I though it might have been me.  Big mistake, but a great lesson.

Bottom line, I will never repeat a bad session again having been schooled.  Even if it was my fault, I will never try a do-over with someone who turned out to be a bad connection.  There are too many great women out there to waste time on someone you didn't click with.

earthshined 596 reads
posted
5 / 21
Re: In my experience...Sex without desire is

a waste of time.  

Do most guys feel the physical act/release  is necessary because they're paying for it?

I find it difficult on a first meeting to enjoy my time with a lady if it's obvious she is going through the motions.  I honestly would rather just chill and maybe just get a massage/happy ending than follow through with the act. I don't know if escorts feel they owe you a "pop" and would get offended if you didn't want sex.

 
Was it something she said or didn’t do to make you disinterested?
 
Posted By: mr5mike
I have repeated a couple of times in the past because I mistakenly thought it might have been my fault.  The women had great reviews or in one case, I had a great time once and then the second meeting was a dud, so I tried a third because again, I though it might have been me.  Big mistake, but a great lesson.  
   
 Bottom line, I will never repeat a bad session again having been schooled.  Even if it was my fault, I will never try a do-over with someone who turned out to be a bad connection.  There are too many great women out there to waste time on someone you didn't click with.  

vamikey 74 Reviews 489 reads
posted
6 / 21
To use an old saying, lots of fish in the sea. There are too many choices out there to go back..

to one that has already disappointed, IMHO.

earthshined 486 reads
posted
7 / 21
Re: To use an old saying, lots of fish in the sea. yes, true but you never know.

a lady I see regularly started out on bad note. She seemed indifferent and it affected my initial impression.

 
3 years and many visits later she is my favorite

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 549 reads
posted
8 / 21
Can't tell if you're doing a survey or asking for advice.

Not sure what you're actually asking to be honest. You've pretty much gotten the advice side of things.

ICantQuit 543 reads
posted
9 / 21
Since you're asking us....Hell NO! No follow-up session!

Dud's typically stay Duds.

earthshined 540 reads
posted
10 / 21
Re: Can't tell if you're doing a survey or asking for advice. how about just your experience?

simple enough right?

Posted By: Jensen36363
Not sure what you're actually asking to be honest. You've pretty much gotten the advice side of things.

earthshined 606 reads
posted
11 / 21
Re: Since you're asking us....Hell NO! No follow-up session!

is it  something she says, your not as physically attracted as you though you'd be or a just a terrible BJ?

vamikey 74 Reviews 476 reads
posted
12 / 21
Well then you answered yoir own question. You are...

apparently willing/tempted to go back to this 'DUD' because it worked for you once before, so go ahead.  Not sure why you asked the question since you seemed to already have the answer!

!!!!! 485 reads
posted
13 / 21
It depends on how hot she is. (e)

I would consider a second session if she's hot and I feel that she has potential.

earthshined 641 reads
posted
14 / 21
Re: Well then you answered yoir own question. You are...Geez dude this is not a test

to find an exact answer.

it was only one example. sometimes you know right away, sometimes you don't.

I never said I was going back. but you apparently read it.
Posted By: vamikey
apparently willing/tempted to go back to this 'DUD' because it worked for you once before, so go ahead.  Not sure why you asked the question since you seemed to already have the answer!
-- Modified on 9/12/2015 10:58:00 PM

earthshined 502 reads
posted
15 / 21
Re: It depends on how hot she is. (e) lol, that helps

unny how that works

ICantQuit 476 reads
posted
16 / 21
The source of Duds are usually, IMHO, the lack of Chemistry,


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ICantQuit 439 reads
posted
17 / 21
Duds are usually due to, IMHO, the lack of Chemistry, Vibe, ETC

Typically, duds have nothing to do with sex acts.  It's more the personality, or lack there of, of the provider and/or the client.

2398799 4 Reviews 697 reads
posted
18 / 21
Actually, I've repeated and it does get better.

I met a gal who was obviously not in a great state to see me. She seemed just a little jumpy and skittish. Her room was a bit of a mess and she took great offence at some comment I made about her not having shaven her bare kitty.

For whatever reason, I decided to see her again. She was a LOT better the second time - and thrilled that I wanted to see her again. She was fucking awesome the third time. And the fourth, well... let's just put it this way, I still see her and can even smell her when I jerk off.

So, it does get better. But there has to be some potential there. Definitely wouldn't repeat if there's zero chemistry the first time around

earthshined 442 reads
posted
19 / 21
Re: Duds are usually due to, IMHO, the lack of Chemistry, Vibe, ETC.Yepthat is what's so interestin

about looking at an ad and reading her profile and then seeing the real thing.

when i tried online dating  I thought ladies with similar interests would be better matches. they usually were not.

People make judgements about others all of the time (and they could be wrong). It's just that in this hobby it's just as easy to move to the next instead of trying again.
Posted By: ICantQuit
Typically, duds have nothing to do with sex acts.  It's more the personality, or lack there of, of the provider and/or the client.

earthshined 484 reads
posted
20 / 21
Re: Actually, I've repeated and it does get better. yes,women

need more time than we do. of course they can do the physical act without feeling anything but there is NO doubt they get better with more time spent and comfort level.

Charlie Tweeder 97 Reviews 485 reads
posted
21 / 21
I have only ever repeated after disappointment if

She was smoking hot, and the chemistry was off, or it felt like she wasn't fully relaxed with me.

Going again isn't going to increase your attraction to her, her rules aren't going to drastically change, and her technique probably isn't going to get drastically better, but chemistry and nervousness or comfortability can get better. No guarantee that they will, but they can.

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