I gave a mini-review and wrote a review for J about a week ago because I honestly thought she was one of the hottest girls I've seen but this guy's opinion apparently differs.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=907139

He even goes as far as to question my integrity. How should I feel?

If you reviewed her honestly and had a great time no problem.  There are so many factors that make the two experiences different that it doesn't matter.  Clien or Provider could have had a bad day, starte to get sick, didn't click what does it matter.

Post your opinion and that is all it is your opinion and let it go.

Over time J's true talent will even out.

Not everyone feel the same as you, and every experience is different. Over time, her reviews will reflect her true skills. Consistency is important, so a provider with 9/9 or 9/8 with intermittent 7, 6, or 5 for either looks/performance is less consistent than someone who receives 8/8 or 8/9 most of the time. FWIW, I too have seen J after reading the first couple of reviews and I agree she is worth the visit, but my experience is more sober than yours. It could be YMMV or our individual experiences, relative to how others have treated us, so on.

I got PM from a guy once outlining his experience with a girl I had recommended on the board. His experience was very different from mine and several other guys.
That is to say not great, not great at all. I was surprized and wondered what the situation was to cause this. Was the girl havintg a bad day? Was the guy a jerk who she just wanted out of her room as soon as possible for any of a host of reasons.
Its a mistery to me but for sure there was a reason, just like there is a reason in your case.
I wouldnt worry about it. Her reputaion will be borne out on the board in the end...and so will his I should mention.

I guess it just kind of affected me that he would make it a point to call out the other reviewers which would include me. I wouldn't want to be considered a non-credible reviewer. Thanks also to the very respected member who gave me a PM.

Actually I had about the same impression as this guy.

I did question how you could give a "YMMV" for services in your mini unless she gave you a menu. I just didn't understand that. If a girl DFKs me - I assume she does it with everyone.

Also - there are a couple of articles about TER that mention that providers will often offer discounts for reviews - especially when they are new.