How about, if you don't like smokers, you turn around and leave?
There is nothing keeping you there at that point is there?
If you don't like smokers, and you smell smoke when you arrive, just explain it and turn around. Why go through with something you will not enjoy? Just so you can complain about it later?
That makes no sense to me
I have had a few horrific experiences with providers who smoke openly and often, to the point where it's all you can smell. And today, hotel staff interrupted my session to fine the Provider I was visiting -- I left after 15 minutes because I couldn't stand the smell. I had one provider a few months ago who answered my "Wow, it really smells like smoke in here" with "Well, yeah, because I smoke!"
Providers -- if you smoke, the SAY SO IN YOUR ADS!!!. Own it and be open about it, and even provide discounts because an experience with you will be far inferior to an experience with a Provider who doesn't smoke. And we Hobbyists don't want that smell on our clothes or our hair or our bodies to explain away when we get home. And Agencies -- enforce a no-smoking policy among your Providers!
Fellow Hobbyists - Join me in a boycott of Providers who smoke and make it so that's all you can smell. The Provider, the room and you all will smell like smoke, and it's thoroughly disgusting.
If she doesn't mention anything about smoking in her ads, and you smell smoke on her, you just leave. That's same thing to me as fake pictures.. Its false advertising.
I am not going to boycott anyone because of one bad thing they do. There is plenty of evidence out there that smoking is injurious to health, and everyone, providers or not should make life choice accordingly. Its even childish to suggest that.
Agencies ,who want to maintain their brand, should enforce some NO SMOKE, NO DRUGS policy. But we are no one to enforce it. All we can do is suggest. If I see any illegal drugs in vicinity, I will just leave.
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I think Boards like TER should separate their listings -- Providers who smoke, and Providers who don't smoke. Why not confine the smokers to their own listing?
Do you turn around and leave? ;
As I mostly hobby with White and Latinas. I have only seen 2-3 black women so far in hundreds that I have fucked.
How about, if you don't like smokers, you turn around and leave?
There is nothing keeping you there at that point is there?
If you don't like smokers, and you smell smoke when you arrive, just explain it and turn around. Why go through with something you will not enjoy? Just so you can complain about it later?
That makes no sense to me
I would disagree that the smell of smoke is disgusting. I'm not turned off by camp fires.
But I have to agree that after visiting a smoker I smell like smoke, and I don't want to have to try to explain that away when I get home. I have had to air myself out before I went home, so in general I try to avoid smokers for that reason alone
Maybe you could ask them if they smoke? I'm sure many girls wouldn't mind coming clean if you ask them beforehand.
its safe to assume that she doesn't smoke... Most women I visit don't smoke. I would say 70-80%. While I am never shy of asking anyone anything, I would hate to be pointed back to the profile, which says, Smoking = "No"
This is not 60s anymore, although after watching Mad Men, I sometimes wish it were....
I do agree with you to a point. But sometimes girls do not even know that they have a TER profile or reviews, nor do they control what initially gets entered onto her profile.
This is not 60s anymore, although after watching Mad Men, I sometimes wish it were....
When I said profile, I mean the all inclusive.. which includes WebPage etc.. Just like they should write about tattoos too, even if the pics are blurred. Because some guys get grossed out by too much ink. Some guys are indifferent. Some dig it.
I've spent time with providers who do smoke and it is listed on the profile but who are good about doing it out doors so their room, hair, etc doesnt smell. They can only freshen their lungs so much prior to an appointment.
What about gals who dont smoke but use LOTS of perfume or stongly scented candles? Those dont come off with a post-shower rinse. Some scents are caught in your clothes and its a dead giveaway.
You can always do a U-Turn when any smell is too strong. Just be polite about it, and maybe she can reschedule and better prepare for the future visit. Its all about communication.
from my experience of those that I have seen that do smoke. They have always smoked outside, not in the room and made good use of mouth wash. I agree that the smell of smoke kind of dulls the moment but is not a deal breaker for me. I did have one that her hair was smokey so I move to doggie and made the best of it
If you do feel that strongly about it, I would simply ask them before setting up the date. I really cant see that a lady would not answer the question. If she doesn't answer the question, move on and happy hobbing
It's a girls choice what she does with her body...you only paying for companionship and it's her preference to smoke and has a right to chose who/what she wants to share her body with. Just because some women rather put a cig in their mouth instead of a minority penis is her preference. Haha...
Anyways Finding a way to freshen a room and the body is well appreciated. They should see about getting a vaporizer type of cig if possible. Or find a way to towel the bathroom door and use the fan. But I'm sure many of clients have smelled of whiskey and cigars so it works both ways to an extent
because the reviews say she smokes even though the profile says "no" - and I've checked the "smokes but not in session" box but it doesn't always take when a review is posted. So if it bugs you (and it does me), then be sure to read reviews and possibly PM other guys beforehand if this is a dealbreaker for you.
The "if you don't like it you should leave" attitude is bogus because you've wasted time and money on something that could have been avoided with a simple listing of 1) smoker 2) smoker but not during session 3) non-smoker. I believe its listed in the TER reviews if they are a smoker or not, so that helps.
and having a lousy session in return is stupid too..
You are right.. She needs to keep her profile up to date. She may not be on TER, but she could still have webpage or P411/DC Ad. She can always keep that up to date. I need to know before hand that she is a smoker
According to CDC, only 16.5% adult woman smoke. So that less than 2 out of 10.
It would be a shame to waste a blue pill by just walking away....
While not much of an issue for me, fellow mongers that I know are on a tight schedule. Weekend and weeknights are no bueno, plus leaving from work for two to three hours (downtown DC to Tyson's) can only happen a couple of times a month at best.
So, just turning away is a HUGE opportunity cost to just leave. If a provider just put down heavy smoker would help out a lot.
Just goes back to the same issues between mongers and providers. Like no-shows and cancels on both ends. Get tied up in traffic, can easily lose half an hour or more. Monger goes over time with a provider, ten minutes for each client, then you've lost an hour after six clients.
Anyway, review section has a part for smokers. Buyer beware
A few of the asian agencies list on their website if they are smokers or non smokers, or not during session.
Never had an issue with a smoker with an asian agency.
During the hours they will be entertaining, this goes for the time in between appointments as well.