Oh no, I certainly agree with you. I just do not think that it is good practice to call/text someone unless they have said it is okay. Many gentlemen have SO's or other reasons for needing discretion. That is the point of my post.
A couple of months ago, after a two month hiatus, I was contacted by a past girl I had seen two or three times. Back and forth continued for a while, but I just assumed she was trying to drum up business after her own pregnancy hiatus.
More recently, I was contacted out of the blue by another woman I only saw once 6 months ago (but my was it memorable). Again, assume that it is just all about touching base with clients but wanted to just make sure I wasn't stupidly and cynically ignoring an opportunity for something more. Conversely, wanted to make sure I wasn't setting myself up for a trap (LE pinches the girl and cuts a deal to reduce her penalty if she lures in guys).
I am getting the same thing recently. It is at a all time high. They will send a text asking you to get a room. Not for me. That is a big no no because if they get busted LE will go after you for getting the room.
the same thing happened to me from a girl i only saw once. she stated she was returning to the business/area. it was quite memorable and i keep looking for her ad--but have not seen it yet. if i did reviews she would be the only 10/10 that i would give out. im keeping my fingers crossed that she magically re-appears again lol.
If the visit was memorable, maybe she is going UTR and wants to add you to her regulars when she travels to this area? Just a thought or am I being naive?
TRUST ME --SHE WAS A favorite in nova/dc. i wish she would come back. others have said that she will be back when she runs out of money. she must of saved a lot because, im sorry to say, is not around.
I will only use email to get back in touch ... and then only if the person has said to let him know when I am planning to be in town.
Just a friendly and content free sentence or two, not interrupting anything. Always just to that person ... not junk mail LOL.
Vanessa
and suggest the ladies contacting these guys are legit. We, living in our sheltered world created by federal government largess creating 300,000+ starter homes values. There are 10+ million less adults employed today then in 2008. Oh, and the jobs for college graduates..why did they bother going?
In Vegas, there are many outstanding providers offering sub $400 rates now. Unheard a few years ago but their phones, Im told, just dont ring. The estimate of 2000 sex industry workers in Vegas 5 years ago is now estimated at 6,000.
We aint immune people and will be the city of focus by people with limited choices as we go forward.
Just a friendly and content free sentence or two, not interrupting anything. Always just to that person ... not junk mail LOL.
Vanessa
I have had an agency and one indy I had previously seen send me a mass text announcing upcoming tours.
Very unwelcome.
Mass email is one thing, but the last thing any of us need is our phone -- even a hobby phone -- going off while in the shower.
If I am looking for playtime, I am looking, and don't need these kinds of reminders. I know where to find ads.
I also have recently received unsolicited texts and emails from providers. I don't appreciate receiving either, but the text was definitely most unwelcome.
Ladies - I know how to contact you so please, please, please don't send me communications unless I specifically have asked you to let me know when you will be back in town.
Her saying hi.... I always send little messages like HAPPY TGIF to my regulars..... Once in awhile I come across someone I haven't seen in awhile (our experience was so memorable that I remembered him) send a friendly "Hope things are well" email..
But scary to know pinched providers making deals to save their asses & put someone else in misery....
Sometimes, if the email is personal instead of bulk, then I do pay more attention to it. If I was somewhat interested in seeing her from the beginning, a personal email would definitely help to seal the deal
A couple years ago, I saw a provider when she was working with an agency and had a great time. After the agency became defunct and she went UTR, she pm'd me and asked me if I wanted to see her again. I just saw her a few weeks ago. She is no longer UTR and has a website and new reviews (great ones, I might add).
More recently, I was contacted out of the blue by another woman I only saw once 6 months ago (but my was it memorable). Again, assume that it is just all about touching base with clients but wanted to just make sure I wasn't stupidly and cynically ignoring an opportunity for something more. Conversely, wanted to make sure I wasn't setting myself up for a trap (LE pinches the girl and cuts a deal to reduce her penalty if she lures in guys).
Same with others, texts are not ok on the monger phone as that always gives me a 'jolt' on why is it buzzing/dinging.
I actually like the e-mails and forum PMs. It says to me I was a good client and they would like to do business with me again.
The only thing I would be wary about in particular if it was a Maryland based provider and they wanted to meet in MC/PG. I had a text from a provider that seemed pretty suspect, but won't share on the public space. Let's just say my monger radar went off the charts.
Be safe.
I do not think it is LE, I think it is perhaps someone who just doesn't know better.
Unless you have been given explicit permission to contact a man or woman, randomly calling/texting is not being discreet and is highly inappropriate. That is just my personal opinion.
I will certainly email friends I have met IF they ask me to let them know when I am available. I also have a couple of guys who I adore and I will occasionally email to just say hey and see how they are, not to drum up any business.
Regardless tread lightly and make sure you think with your big head ;
I don't see the harm in someone you liked saying she is back in town or having specials. Seems like good business practices.
Oh no, I certainly agree with you. I just do not think that it is good practice to call/text someone unless they have said it is okay. Many gentlemen have SO's or other reasons for needing discretion. That is the point of my post.