Reached out to a touring provider yesterday to initiate an appointment.  Her ad said light screening...

So, I contacted and asked what she needed for verification.  
References....
I respond " ive only been using agencies as of late, so I informed her that I would need to contact them and ask if they minded me using them as a reference.  
I did, they were ok with that, and I responded to the provider with the contact info.....Crickets!

I can only assume that when I didnt immediately provide her with those references, that she blocked my number.
She didn't accept P411.

All I can say is....would she like it if I had given her info out as a reference before checking with her?
I followed what I believe is a proper etiquette in this situation, yet, was not given time to provide what she asked for. Nuts...

She is not worth your time.  Just move on to someone who will accept your references.

It just irritated me....
I havent been in this forever, but I have been long enough. I have references, and P411 as a verification tool. But wasn't given the opportunity to check with those references, giving them a heads up that I would like to use them.  
Ive written that provider off, but the irritation caused me to need to vent.

The other thing is that I took time out of their day to ask if they'd provide a reference, and then the provider didn't even reach out to them...

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One other thing to keep in mind in the future (and even for this case) if you are working with an indie they might be doing EVERYTHING. So when you email or text they might be busy for a few hours.  

 
Always a good idea to keep a backup plan and not set your expectations for any given meeting ever actually occurring, or perhaps just not when you wanted, until you have been with them a while. Even then they may ghost you after a while even though there seems not reason for that to happen.  Always set your mind to a "I'll just roll with what happens" type of view and you won't have as much frustration. (And yes, I know that can sometimes be difficult. When we feel the urge .... LOL)

And the touring girl is?

I can't even remember the last time I used references aside from P411. It's a PITA waiting on reference verification as I used to back in the old days and get the last-minute cancelation with a lame excuse.

I mostly book a same-day appointment with a few hours of notice with the agencies nowaday. I'd give an indie girl 8 hours or so if my mood strikes. It doesn't work for everyone but it saves me from annoyances.

Yeah....well, I  wasted 2 days on her. Jumped through all her hoops, just to get nothing back. Ive got a P411, and over 4 yrs playing the game, so im no rookie any longer. Her pics looked good,but given her handling, I probably just saved myself from getting fucked out of 400 bucks for a BP ripoff anyway...lol

I get that....I know many girls who handle both ends on their own. But this lady responded to my initial request immediately,  But then took 4 days to finally get back to me....
Yes....I  did finally hear from her. Pretty sure she's a BP level girl, trying to get 4 an hour for dont touch that, can't touch this service.  
Plan B wasn't there, cuz I really haven't seen anyone in ( or come in to the area ) that interests me in the least. Bottom line....if it takes 4 days to get back to a potential client.. and you're touring... how the hell do you ever book anyone?

Its all good. The search continues...

Most indie providers do not accept agency references. There are far too many complications independent providers come across when approaching agencies so most just don’t accept them. Some girls also just aren’t too great with communication either. If you’d really like to see the girl, have some employment info or independent references (usually the more refs, the better). Hope you can connect or find another amazing girl!

She accepted the refs....
Ive seen several Indie ladies, but they've all retired, except one...and I havent seen her in about a year and a half due to her not being in my area, and / or our schedules not lining up when she has been. Nutshelled...im not asking a lady who hasn't seen me in significant time to vouch for me with another.  
No biggie, there are plenty of ladies on P411 that will see me.
I was just trying to meet someone different...