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kjpepper 48 Reviews 717 reads
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Yeah, I know that. Guess I need to stop being lazy and review the others... but really, I don't care what people think about that. And why would someone have a problem texting me that the TS thing is an issue?

Funny thing is, though I know there is a stigma, I've never had the TS thing mentioned to me once and I've seen probably 20 different girls over the last year.

And to add one more detail, this was not a backpager or anything like that. This was a VERY well reviewed $400/hour provider.

Posted By: Pattaya729
That large portion of your revews are of TS providers?

kjpepper1392 reads

Was trying to set up a meeting with a provider today - a very well reviewed provider - who declined to see me because I've left bad reviews for other providers before. This seems to be against the spirit of TER, in my opinion.

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tallslim26807 reads

If she has a problem with you posting honest reviews that she says are "bad" then she may fear that her level of performance would not be enough to ensure that you would not post a bad one of her. If the girl was a top notch provider then she should/would have nothing to fear as far as a bad review.

She may have saved you some time and money. It is almost always just goofy when providers turn away a hobbyist who is attempting to hand them over the funds they request for their time and company, don't trouble yourself about it, it is her loss.

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BhristePéineas603 reads

I would be surprised if ANYONE agreed to see him

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jcnva335 reads

it appears he can't make up his mind which side of the plate to swing from!

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tallslim26231 reads

That might alter my take but the spirit of my post remains, I see no point in trying to bang down a door in order to give a donation to someone, if someone doesn't think my money is good then I will look elsewhere, I am not going to beg someone to get together in this hobby.

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Innneresting529 reads

Really?

Because what good is $300 today if it means a lost of $3000 tomorrow because of a bad review?

Its no ones loss.  Its just a case of it is what it is.

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kjpepper901 reads

I'm not really sweating it. When I pressed her, she seemed to take issue with the fact that I pulled the plug on a couple terrible providers and wrote about it, suggesting that I unfairly stiffed a provider who was exceptionally disinterested and made me want to leave with her own actions.

What struck me is that she said she didn't like seeing guys that give bad reviews, and that she'd feel uneasy about it the entire time.

Didn't mention the TS thing, but it may have been a factor I guess. Haven't even seen one since that last bad experience but haven't had time to write reviews of the regular girls I've seen.

Posted By: tallslim26
If she has a problem with you posting honest reviews that she says are "bad" then she may fear that her level of performance would not be enough to ensure that you would not post a bad one of her. If the girl was a top notch provider then she should/would have nothing to fear as far as a bad review.

She may have saved you some time and money. It is almost always just goofy when providers turn away a hobbyist who is attempting to hand them over the funds they request for their time and company, don't trouble yourself about it, it is her loss.

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Posted By: kjpepper
I'm not really sweating it. When I pressed her, she seemed to take issue with the fact that I pulled the plug on a couple terrible providers and wrote about it, suggesting that I unfairly stiffed a provider who was exceptionally disinterested and made me want to leave with her own actions.
How do you justify stiffing a provider after engaging in activities?  It's one thing if you walk out before things begin...but you participated in a LOT of activity...then walked out without leaving anything?  That's absurd...a woman would have to be a fool or desperate to see you after reading these reviews...T-girls notwithstanding...

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kjpepper715 reads

Honestly, you weren't there. I've left the donation for 99 percent of my activities in this hobby, including many times that I didn't feel it was really justified.

But in the two cases you reference, the performance was so bad, the bait and switch (in one case) so obvious, the disinterest so noticeable, that I wasn't going to just bite the bullet. I'm sure I'll get shit for this, but if you go to a restaurant and order a steak and they serve you a pile of crap on your plate do you pay?

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Posted By: kjpepper
I'm not really sweating it. When I pressed her, she seemed to take issue with the fact that I pulled the plug on a couple terrible providers and wrote about it, suggesting that I unfairly stiffed a provider who was exceptionally disinterested and made me want to leave with her own actions.
How do you justify stiffing a provider after engaging in activities?  It's one thing if you walk out before things begin...but you participated in a LOT of activity...then walked out without leaving anything?  That's absurd...a woman would have to be a fool or desperate to see you after reading these reviews...T-girls notwithstanding...

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PrincessPuss218 reads

the food back....unless you ate the food.
Honestly, you sem to be well versed in justifying your actions to yourself.
Biting you in the ass at the same time.
The common denominator here is YOU.....Think about that.

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kjpepper181 reads

nice alias...

I'm perfectly comfortable with my actions. And I'm allowed to be pissed off, just as she was allowed to not see me.

And for the record, I didn't fuck anyone and then bolt without paying.

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tallslim26197 reads

Yeah I can't agree with you on not paying the provider if you engaged in activity. Write a bad review, sure, but unless you walk away at the beginning that is a big no-no I would say.

I would be afraid to do that if I were you, you never know the girl might have some backup to ensure that not happening or she might be able to take care of things herself if you get my drift.

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kjpepper294 reads

Providers can see who they want - that much I know and understand. It was the part about not seeing folks that leave bad reviews that struck me. If that's her true policy, and one can debate whether her choice had more to do with the TS thing than anything, it's essentially saying, "I don't want people to be honest" and seems to go against all that TER is built on.

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Pattaya729368 reads

That large portion of your revews are of TS providers?

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kjpepper718 reads

Yeah, I know that. Guess I need to stop being lazy and review the others... but really, I don't care what people think about that. And why would someone have a problem texting me that the TS thing is an issue?

Funny thing is, though I know there is a stigma, I've never had the TS thing mentioned to me once and I've seen probably 20 different girls over the last year.

And to add one more detail, this was not a backpager or anything like that. This was a VERY well reviewed $400/hour provider.

Posted By: Pattaya729
That large portion of your revews are of TS providers?

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Pattaya729395 reads

Ok you continue to but snorkel

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ReallySeriouslyCmon!363 reads

My comment might be pulled.  But seriously dude!  You must be friggin' HARD to please!  One quick look is all I needed.  I would never see someone like you.  Honestly, I doubt you would want to see me either since I am over 45.  But your scores suck.  Plain and simple.  IMHO..They suck.  That's my opinion.  I don't blame her for not seeing you.  Karma is a bitch.

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kjpepper287 reads

It's probably that I'm honest... If a girl is a 5, I'll say she's a 5.

And to be fair, I've changed my hobbying in the last year or so, going with a higher level of provider, and I've grown out of the TS curiosity thing. But I've been remiss in writing reviews though due to the time and the hoops you have to jump through to leave reviews (read: I've been lazy).

Posted By: ReallySeriouslyCmon!
My comment might be pulled.  But seriously dude!  You must be friggin' HARD to please!  One quick look is all I needed.  I would never see someone like you.  Honestly, I doubt you would want to see me either since I am over 45.  But your scores suck.  Plain and simple.  IMHO..They suck.  That's my opinion.  I don't blame her for not seeing you.  Karma is a bitch.  

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Posted By: kjpepper
It's probably that I'm honest... If a girl is a 5, I'll say she's a 5.

And to be fair, I've changed my hobbying in the last year or so, going with a higher level of provider, and I've grown out of the TS curiosity thing. But I've been remiss in writing reviews though due to the time and the hoops you have to jump through to leave reviews (read: I've been lazy).


Just a thought, but in the time you have spent on this "problem" and being "a little pissed off", you probably could have written several reviews and shown everyone your true colors!  Again just a thought not a sermon.

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kjpepper234 reads

Thanks Lon!

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NeverPoliticallyCorrect193 reads

After reading your reviews of mostly TS's it would occur to me that a well reviewed provider would not want a review from you on their list. Sorry to say but with all the low scores you gave everyone that isn't the reason you were declined. It added to the reasoning behind the declining of you as a client though. You had multiple strikes against you right from the start.

We have to consider our other clients views of us seeing someone that has mainly seen TS's. To me, in my opinion I wasn't losing any money in the situation but I would have if I had seen you knowing your preferences.

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