I know i know we all get a fair share of being burned on both ends of the client-provider spectrum but when one makes arrangements at the behest of the provider requesting an outcall location, which is reconfirmed by her so that no one wastes each others time.  

I'd out her. She cost you money and time. We all deserve to know so we don't make the same mistake.

Thx man. Yeah was thinkin the same thing but theres always that risk of gettin retaliatorily blacklisted unjustly by the perpetrating provider. Somethin one would wanna avoid if youve got a clean+ track record. As far as i know i do

his is really unacceptible Geo..Sorry you wasted your time with her

No way for us to really "out" you...this is a hobby of trust.  All of us needto respect and honor each other's time and commitment to meet.  

& so noone can say it's baseless slander.

It happens to me at least once a year. It is something that you have to plan for. Look at this way you know have money to see an alternative provider

maybe something happens? emergency?  

Just a thought. Maybe she got to the location and saw LE sitting around in unmarked cars and was thinking sting. That would explain why she acted like she had know idea what you were talking about when you called for and explanation. With 7 good reviews, I would have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

As some have said, sometimes stuff happens and you have to bail.  Someone sick in the family, spooked by LE related activities, and so on.  We have all been stiffed by providers.  I personally have made confirmed appointments, driven to the hotel and then nothing.  I just move on and assume that something happened.  It comes with the turf.  I think you have to reconsider ever making a hotel reservation for an outcall because that is a very risky move when it comes to this hobby.  Either do the incall or outcall to a hotel which you are already in for another reason.

Don't know about outing. What happened doesn't sound pleasant. Maybe there's and explanation maybe not but I understand the frustration and the extra effort on your part makes it worse. If it happens again to a member then. Doesn't sound right with seven good reviews. Just know if you're in the hobby long enough, you might get caught yourself sometime.

I had already seen 4 times.  
 
How long has it been since appointment was set 1, 2 days?

she said wrong number. wtf?  

Blacklist smacklist. It's not like you are making an untrue accusation and you clearly stated what she said to you when you inquired.

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Thx man. Yeah was thinkin the same thing but theres always that risk of gettin retaliatorily blacklisted unjustly by the perpetrating provider. Somethin one would wanna avoid if youve got a clean+ track record. As far as i know i do

Hmmm thats a good idea hon but ill need to figure how to post without an attachment button. Thanks for vote of confidence and your tip.

Thanks for the encouragement buddy. Hope it never happens to you again. So maybe outing might take it to less than once every 2 years for you and the other hobbyists at large.

At the Hilton Mark center? doubtful

Sound advice for considering next time. Still sucks tho but Thx

Yeah but sounds like you had the decency to pass on a heads-up cancellation - i hope you did otherwise for shame. . . i mean how long does it take to message someone to say "i got the runs - sorry i gotta reschedule"
like someone previously said - unexpected shit happens.

set 4 or 5 days ahead confirmed at least once after and confirmed day before. I know she said was single mom visiting family nearby for weekend so had no incall location but was eager to meet, had car and requested outcall place to facilitate date. Maybe a family member accidentally got her phone and she had to cover - i dunno who knows???

in my experience, " communication  issues(phone was dead, didn't get your message etc) are either a sign of things going south with a known provider you've seen or that the meeting with someone new ain't happening
 

This is not to annoy you but it probably will.  
What you experienced is what happens frequently to the ladies. They get a room and for a scheduled date no show and no call. They don't often bring it to the board but you'll find it on their websites and some require deposits or payment if you cancel within 24 hours before, which annoys many. I know you have a chip on your shoulder and I'm not trying to knock it off. You've experienced what the ladies do all too often. Use it as a learning experience. We've heard your side and sympathize with you. We'll probably never hear her side.

You have to earn a good review hon - there are no freebees just as there are no negotiable rates on your end.   If the review was mediocre then that was reflective of unmet expectations. You cant just sit there with your handout and make me do all the work and entertaining. Im there for a reason and expect to leave on a better note than when i arrived. If i feel rushed, on a conveyer, encounter bad attitude, bad hygiene or someone that makes no effort to present favorably, then thatll be reflected in the review. Maybe you had a bad day or something was off. I wont I hold that against you unless it appears to be consistent practice.  I will give great reviews for gals that indeed deserve accolades. Like Megan and Kaylee-becky theyre awesome and will get at least 8s on upcoming reviews. Some folks handout 9s and 10s like candy but that should be reserved for the truly unique n merited.   So what? you expecting a 10 on your end? prove it! i wouldnt even give myself a 10 as a client. . .so lets be real now.

Youd hear her side if she surfaces but dont expect to unless maybe i out her. but that may be bad precedent because hard to tell whos lying. Difference is theyre running a business and im not. We just want what we paid for. Yup i can relate with'em which is why i dont do it to others. Not annoying just sharing the wealth of perspectives to learn and avoid future hassles. Reputation counts in this line of hobby for many reasons.

That does not excuse the behavior.  The lady should have cancelled and should have already apologized

Pretending you must have dialed her as a wrong number??  Not cool.

Verdict is to OUT un-apologetic time-resource wasting provider by PM