Do you know where XOXO came from? Or why you get so turned on from a kiss? Read on to find the answers then check out the expert tips on how to kiss!
1. There Are Tons Of Nerve Endings…
…in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!) that stimulate desire. That’s why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely arousing and satisfying. Source: Krista Bloom, PhD, author of The Ultimate Compatibility Quiz
2. Forty Percent Of Men Say That…
…a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready for sex. (Thirty percent said that grabbing their crotch will do it. No, really? Duh.) Source: Cosmo Poll, April 2009
3. Pay Attention To Those “See Ya Later” Pecks. If a Gal…
…routinely only gives you a quick kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that she’s guarded and doesn’t emote easily. If this is a more recent development, it’s a warning sign; she may be feeling ambivalent about the relationship. Source: Body language expert Tony Reiman
4. Instantly Turn Up The Kissing Intimacy By…
…closing the “A-frame”: a smooching stance in which you and your lady are in the middle of a smooch but your hips are a mile apart. By pressing your hips together, the degree of desire quickly rises. Source: William Cane, kissing coach and author of The Art of Kissing
5. The Best Way To Kiss A Guy’s Ear? Kiss And…
…suck on his earlobe for a moment and then trace the outline of her ear with the tip of your tongue. (Bonus points if you whisper something naughty to her.) Source: Ava Cadell, PhD
6. Men Initiate Open-Mouth Kissing To Transfer…
…libido-boosting testosterone to their partner. So when he’s getting a little more aggressive, it’s not just about his desire — he wants her to be a bit more amorous too. Source: Study by the University at Albany
7. Men Are More Than Twice As Likely…
…to have sex with a bad kisser than are women. Source: eHarmony.com, “What Men and Women Want in a Kiss
8. When Coy Kisses Aren’t Going To Cut It…
…here’s why you should let loose: Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited, and making it easier for you to reach orgasm. Source: Ava Cadell, PhD
9. Fifty-Four Percent Of Women…
…between the ages of 18 and 24 say they’ve kissed another girl. That number drops to 43 percent for those between 25 and 34. Source: Cosmo Poll, December 2008
10. During The Middle Ages, People Signed Legal Contracts…
…by making an “X” on the document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That’s how XX became shorthand for a smooch. Source: Kissing: The Complete Guide by Tamar Schreibman
Do any of you care to share any of your personal findings on kissing and how to make it enjoyable?
11. Kissing your boss' ass, and repeatedly doing so, can qualify you for an immediate raise - even in an economy. LOL
Being a huge fan of DFK, I only see providers that provide superior kissing experience (SKE)
Having been with at least 100 women so far, I find that race plays some part in woman's willingness to kiss - at least in the "hobbying" world.
I've found that Caucasian women are more willing to kiss a client. Latinos are a little less willing and its rare to find an Asian-Indian women willing to kiss. Data could be lit skewed since there aren't too many Indian women in the business to begin with. Also, I've found kissing to be somewhat rare in other Asian cultures such as Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese etc.
Anyone care to share their observations in hobby or otherwise?
It's true not that many East Indian providers in the biz. But you obviously have missed two of the popular ones in this area - Penelope@Dreams and Divya@Pure. Both deliver an outstanding DFK performance.
I've found that Caucasian women are more willing to kiss a client. Latinos are a little less willing and its rare to find an Asian-Indian women willing to kiss. Data could be lit skewed since there aren't too many Indian women in the business to begin with.
..and do not forget African women, they are the best kissers by far!!!
Pheromones, according to research, they are found in the "circumoral region and the lips) and
acts as a powerful aphrodisiac. Also found in other regions ie armpits , genitals and trust me
they are very stimulatiing .
And if a session does not include a lot of passionate DFK, well its just not going to be a
satisfying experience from my point of view. Not sure if I agree with Fook on the ethnic
superiority of certain women. My experience is shes either into it or shes not and believe
me, just like a BBBJ if shes into it, theres a hellavh huge difference in both quality and passion.
One more thing 'DCmuse' I really dig your posts, keep up the good work
I've seen Divya before. She is a very nice girl, but her kissing was light - at best. This was before she was with her current agency. Haven't seen Penelope (Would love to see her, but I don't agree with her agency's verification process)
Had a weird experience once in civvie life. I was dating an Indian women. She would not want to kiss, but do everything else. It was really hard to perform since my arousal depends so much on DFKing. One time after trying to perform all night long, but unable to so due lack of kissing, I had to stop the next day at my favorite provider's just for a make out session. Needless to say, the relationship ended that night.
for me the perfect kiss goes in for the kill and is very deliberate. A good kisser will get my panties wet real quick and time becomes and endless.
That perfect kiss starts slow and warms up quickly. It moves in different paces yet never falters. Every part of your being seems to center around the kiss and your body moves right along with it. You are breathless with passion but the air is not being sucked out of you. Energy is ignited and sparks fly with an erotic blend of tongue moves mixed with fleeting body touches. It's very much like the tango in it's urgency and deliberateness by both partners. A good kiss can only develop if both are longing to bring it to it's peeks. I get goose bumps just thinking about it.
Gets my motor running every time and happy others feel the same
Kisses Haley
I've found that gently biting the lower lip is a great move!
I HAVE FOUND THAT BITING OF ANYKIND KILLS THE MOOD !! IM AN AWESOME KISSER.. BEEN TOLD SOO TOO MANY TIMES FOR IT NOT TO BE TRUE.... HAAAAAAAAA
I absolutely love your description of the perfect kiss. You nailed it.
Big Hugs and Kisses to you sexy lady....Betty xoxoxo
touting the benefits of a good french kiss.
They used to say that the way to a man's heart was through his stomach. Give me a lady who likes to kiss passionately and for long periods and she will have my heart.
I have turned down people who requested no kissing. Personally, it would feel awkward and uncomfortable not to kiss. I love long, deep, passionate kissing mixed with soft, lingering kisses....and more. Kissing turns me on, and it seems to turn guys on too. I highly recommend doing it a lot! ![]()
Kisses! Betty xoxoxoxo