I usually just say, yes I have seen him and had no problems.

I have heard that some ladies who have had run-ins with LE and who asked for references in the past, have had those references contacted.

IMHO, give a "nice guy" or "not so nice guy" response like you had suggested.

BTW, I hate the cold weather!

I would agree that all that should be shared is whether we are a good guy or not, and if you would see us again.  That makes sense to me and seems to be a reasonable referral process.  More detailed questions would make me uncomfortable.

Not sure if you are being oversensitive or just cautious.  Have a fantastic day and happy hobbying!!!

I agree that intimate details should not be discussed.  At the same time, I always give a little extra information.  I will say something like he is very sweet and a normal GFE appointment.  Or, yes I know him, he is safe and is always 10-15 minutes early (or late).  Something like that is okay in my book and good to know.  Anything above and beyond that is not necessary.

If the gent has written reviews, all the extra (intimate) information we need is right here for us to read.

Best, Betty

I personally do not have an issue with any question if it relates to

a sincere desire she has in making the encounter the best possible.  True, professionally I think there is a normal "minimum" information exchanged.  But if a lady is trying to find out what things make me happy, anyone who I have seen is free to chat away.

I guess I assume that they will talk about whatever they feel like sharing anyway - good or bad - regardless of my opinion.  We guys sure as heck feel free to do it.  We write reviews about it.  LOL  I only care about certain personal info that some of the ladies know about me.  

In regards to anything related to the hobby, that is fair game in my book.  If it helps the lady get ready for a better session, great.  I would think that there would be an exception in regards to mutualy agreed upon "non-standard" private stuff of course.

Anyway, I can see that it can be uncomfortable, but each lady seems to have her own reasons for doing this, their own standards, etc.  I have no problem with you ladies supporting each other as much as possible and warning each other about my massive cock.  LOL

In my case, ask away Angelina

I have been fine with recieving a minimalist answer. Each experience may vary between providers anyway. I mainly want to know he is safe.

Unfortunately, I had a lady give me a hard time because I didn't give her a heads up that my client pops multiple times. She has a one "pop" per hour rule. I on the other hand do not. So why would I state that in a referral? He was a gentleman and that's all I reported. I also make sure I make a good effort to respond in a timely maner. We all appreciate that.

Hello! I have the same approach! Either I have seen him and would again, or haven't seen him,or wouldn't again.
If I have seen the guy and I wouldn't repeat I will explain why. But that's all I really say.

I value descreetness.

Giving details is not good. As others say, minimal information, keep it simple.

Yes you have met and no problem. Meaning you would see them again.

Yes you have met and would not see again. If asked why, you decide how to explain or simply say I would rather not.

No have not met. Easiest answer of all, even if you have met.

Anything more and it could be damaging.

Some will give details such as, he's so big. Then they won't say they would not want to see again. WFT?

Less is more. Let them decide from your reply and other information if they want to meet.

The best experiences are always left to the imagination.

I think your current policy is just fine!!!