I know what most will say, “sure you should, as it helps the community.”

I get that, but what if my experience with a lady seemed to go against the grain of pretty much everyone who posted theirs?  My concern is that because she has some of my contact information and could likely put two and two together, that old “woman scorned” adage will come into play and I might get some blow back.  

And, before I get jumped on, let me say my experience was awful.

That is what an alias is for and just change the month  if the visit in the review to an earlier date. I did a review if a girl who had all 9s and 10s. After my review a bunch if guys said mybreview was spot on and they didn't want to write a bad review. WTF.

I’m curious to know that much and how you would rate her looks and performance compared to others.

Sad some give out TMI and live in fear of retaliation. If I felt as concerned as you seem to be I would not have posted your question because so many guys who have nothing to loose will bash you for not posting it yet I know most that will be harsh are not going to do it either for the same concerns you have. And most will Be from alias that have no review history, which btw I do.

Good luck, I see the train a commin

And have only posted to a few threads here since December last year. I don’t think it’s a good idea that you post a bad review for your first. Many will think it’s BS seeing how you have no previous good review history.

In fact if I were you I would ask TER to delete this thread to avoid a train wreck. But ok if you like train wrecks then ignore my advice.

And for anyone who bashed him for not writing a bad review show us where you have had a bad experience with someone who has a decent history of receiving good reviews, I’m sure you won’t as much as I’m sure all that bash away are not willing to ruin there reputation and will post as an alias.

Starting the popcorn

so wondering if it was me.  It started with the gentleman being an hour late and things did not recover from there.  We simply did not seem to connect, it was late, I was tired and annoyed and he had just lost his friend to a heart attack. Let's say, it was a disaster appointment, on so many levels. He was so late I had changed from sexy clothes to gym attire and was ready to head home when he pulled in. Should not have gone through with the appointment, hindsight being 20/20

That said, would never retaliate because I have your contact info. Not my style. Just be truthful and fair, with whomever it was

It was not you.

And yet, read between the kind, you bash me for posting my question.

Shame on both of you LoL. Did he at least let you know he was running late? Yes in hindsight you should have told him to reschedule.  

I will be floored if it was the OP here. If it was, instead of writing a bad review he can admit to some of the cause for it being awful as he said.  

Curious, his reason for being late was believable? Had he suggested rescheduling would you have? Do you charge fees for last minute (hour) cancellation?

I’m betting you still look sexy in gym attire and bet some guys might ask you for this or to dress down or casual let’s say. I’m sure you didn’t remove your makeup, did you??? LoL

He did not even call me to tell me he was running late, I called him.  He kept telling me, 15 minutes, 15 more min., yada yada.

But thank you for saying I would still look good in gym clothes and yes, makeup was still on.  LOL! Try and never keave home without it

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Reviews are subjective so one man's 9 may be another man's 7. You have to give some context and let others decide. Everyone has off nights or performances once in a while as they're only human. If she is a reputable provider with a lot of reviews, I would still write your honest review. Chalk it up to the fact that it was an off night or you two just didn't click.

You raised a good question I only provided my opinion as to what the outcome might be where others who wouldn’t write bad reviews may come out to bash you.

I asked how awful was it. You provide no details. Someone else has asked that simple question yet you failed to answer mine.

I also suggested it might not be a good idea to have your first review bashing a provider who othwise has good reviews.

As the other guy said, write the review. Occasionally everyone has an off day. I doubt it will hurt her reputation but some won’t believe your review being other than vindictive for what ever reason.

So was this AngelinaDD? Where you the guy she’s talking about? Running late so much she has to call her date to be sure they’re coming? I hope not.  

If it was, please provide more information and your side with at least a little detail, or, (ok here come a bash) STFU

Whew!  Thanks for clarifying😎 and sorry it happened to you

Y hide behind an alias, I don’t get it!  If you are man enough to write a review, good or bad, be man enough to own it!  I would think reviews with an alias, are somewhat worthless.  If you trash someone’s rep, own it, especially if said lady deserved it!  

Funny thing is both he and I are using an alias and both of use have reviews using it, neither of us has posted a bad review as I can tell. But I understand the sentiment Man Up to it. I wouldn’t have suggested doing that because if you provide the details of what went wrong it’s very likely she would remember Don’t you think? Then his original user name and alias would be known and could be used if she wanted to be vindictive.

Why not post up your real name instead of hiding behind the name of Angelina?  

I'm telling him to write the review as an alias behind an alias. He would be protecting himself from retribution, which I guess never happens. Oh, wait - look at what happened to GaGambler.

Exactly.  

What if geolen141 wanted to see Angelina, and his review had NOTHING to do with her, but another provider. She then rejects him because of the potential for a bad review or what he said on this board.

He exposed himself years ago and has no regrets. And if this guy posts the details you think she can’t connect the dots?

He still hasn’t replied as to what made this so awful. And he even suggested I bashed him, did my post make you think I did?

I comment how those who will bash him to write a review will likely be using an alias. I see you post reviews using it, but they all look decent.  

I still think he should let it go only because she will likely know it’s him using an alias and it being his first review won’t be taken seriously if she has numerous other good reviews.

Not asking you to use your real name, just your handle, not an alias!  No one here uses their real name!  Not quite the same, is it?

It was not AngelinaDDD.  

I will lean away from the bad review as we all have bad days and I’ll cut her some slack and chalk it up to a learning experience.  

No bad feelings to her or you.  

Thanks for you input.

Someone posting a bad review, is not a reason to not see someone.  Someone posting only bad reviews, is.  Big difference there.  The bottom line is being honest and not just to be a n asshat

Your original handle is your first alias... Happy it’s not like the old days where you could have as many as you want.

Everyone who chooses to use an alias has there own reason. Mine was for security years ago. And while I could change my original handle it would still link my original reviews.

I’m happy TER Allowed one extra name and the ability to review under it, which I’ve done.

I’m sure he wouldn’t expect you to provide your name as I doubt if he choose to see you he would provide his.

So I’m waiting for the OP to answer what was so awful, crickets, chip chip chip

Time to get back to having fun and chalking up experiences like this to lessons learned and no harm done.

Be a gentleman and contact her if you haven’t already. Let her know how you feel without being harsh. Sadly shit happens and people have bad days. If you mark it up to that, being nice enough to let her know may bring out a dialog where she can explain her side and maybe offer to make it up to you, that’s worked for others before.

I no longer want to know the details and don’t think it’s a good idea to post them. Yet I’m surprised that most post like yours bring out the hateful trolls condemning you if you don’t write a review, good they took the weekend off to enjoy the warm weather we had today.

Best of luck and I hope someday you will meet someone to let us know how good she was. Just try not to finish it with “Run don’t Walk” or “Treat her Nice” simple enough to say, you would repeat.

I see your point. Nobody is perfect and sometimes we have bad days, or just bad appts. Someone few post earlier mentioned to contact her and communicate your concerns. Maybe by telling you two can get to a point that who knows... maybe set up a later date and make it better?  or maybe part different ways and no hate just like agree to disagree? (hope u understand what I meant).  Not everyone get alone I get it!. So far, I haven't had a such a bad experience, usually the issue is during screening.. but after they meet me, we are all good! (YAY)~ (for what some ladies/friends and clients told me... the issue is that I may come off a bit strong, but after meeting me they understand that it's bc English is not my first language and I just say things how I translate it you know?)...    

Regardless, if you post a review, well.. it is what it is.. be honest.,like Angelina mentioned... OWN IT.  

Anyways..., can't sleep... just got home from watching Star Wars... cool movie

There are more than a couple providers that would say an honest review is being an a n asshat ;P

Is this hooker logic?  

A handle is an alias. It is the same thing.  If you're not using your real name, its duh - an alias. It really makes no sense when people say on here, use your real handle. Your real handle is an alias so you're not putting out your real legal name for the public to see.

Huh?  You said exactly what I was stating, but why be rude and deragatory about it!  Who pissed in your Wheaties this morning!  I was stating the same exact thing!  Your handle is already an alias!  We all are here under an alias!  Hooker logic maybe but at least not being a tool. Have a lovely Sunday.

Yeah, no. We aren't saying the same thing. I don't eat Wheaties, either.  

Who is being rude and derogatory? Hello Kettle, and a little smiley face at the end of the sentence doesn't make it better or not rude.  :PTo refresh your short term memory, see below.Have a lovely Sunday beautiful, may the sun shine and tan your magnificent tits.

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You didn’t say what was awful so it’s hard to say what you should do. And I understand you may be reluctant to share further details.  

I guess this would depend on what kind of person you think she is, but you should consider going back to her and saying that you did not have the experience you thought you all would have and wanted to provide some feedback. If kindly worded, it could be valuable.  

Everyone has bad days, and if she has lots of favorable reviews but her personality or behavior didn’t come across the way you thought then she could very well have had something else going on.  

I am sorry this happened to you.

I’m a little late to a long post.
Off days, it happens, I saw a lady and had a great time and reviewed her well. So good I went back the next week, average at best. I couldn’t tell if it was a long night before my morning visit or if she may have been on drugs, she was a different animal. If I had reviewed that second visit it would not have been good as most of hers are. I just called it an off day, but haven’t been back because I don’t know which one will show up. The only ‘bad review’ I could have done was before TER, and no I didn't post it for other reasons, another time, another place and a long story.

Gym clothes are great. We can work up a little sweat before we work up a lot of sweat. I actually gave a lady workout clothes and had her wear them. With the right ass yoga pants are great. If the ladies I visit want to wear them, it ok with me, as my handle implies, gym my other life. And Angelina, your breast scare me . I'd get lost in there and may never come out.

aliases: I have only used mine once and not for a review, and it wasn't negative post.  I would have like to join a discussion on the board earlier because I had things to contribute on both sides of the discussion. I didn’t, why, because both sides have access to too much personal information. Not that either could cause much trouble for my personal life, I’m single but partnered and retired, but they could in the hobby if they chose to, and I believe one would.  Alias wouldn’t have worked, I would be too recognizable. Reviews, I try to make them as honest as I can, with my crazy style. Only one person I have seen since my return did I not review and that I discussed on the board. My review would have not been good or bad I just couldn’t do it as others did.

Apology here. I’m an inactive hobbyist at the moment. I didn’t expect to be around as I posted a few months ago, but my health has improved and looks like I’ll be back in the game before long. Right now I feel most of my post are of ancient history.

I posted a review years ago about a bad experience. The woman made me wait an hour, pics were very old and not as advertised, and the session was totally uninspired.  She was well known in another city but visited the DC area often. She had a loyal following of men in another city, which I never understood.

I wrote an honest and factual review, which she later responded about on the board basically corroborating what happened, complete with personal attacks about me, (fair enough, loser).  I made certain that my review was not personal or attacked her in a personal way.  I simply described what happened and made sure that I stressed that YMMV.

I was immediately attacked in writing on the board by some of her regulars, and then by her about 24 hours later. I figured, whatever. The board's response was pretty hilarious actually and skewered her and her cohorts.

In honesty, I did have a few providers read the review and ask me about it and one admitted she wouldn't see me.  There was no other blow-back.  The only way I'll post a negative review anymore is if I am ripped off or deceived, which has happened.  Otherwise I just ignore a subpar experience and move onto other providers.

I thought initially when I joined TER, that the purpose of this webpage was for honest reviews and info sharing.  Boy, did I get schooled in a hurry. As long as I wrote happy stories, with high scores, all was fine.  

Then one day, this agency that I had been using for a year, encouraged me to TOFTT, as they had hired a new cute blonde (former WV stripper). I was happy with the looks department, but was met with a cold dead fish with no passion, just fuck me and leave attitude. I left a message on the answering service of the agency that things did not go well. Never got a call back.  

Several days later, I posted an honest review. THEN I got a call, a text and an email. I was accused of hurting the business. That the girl was crying because of the review. That clients were not booking her. I was black mailed into changing the review. I was told, I could never see one of the Agency girls ever again, If I did not pull the review. I gave the girl a 9 in looks and 6 in performance. I was told that I would be put on some black list somewhere. I caved.  

TER would not delete the review. I could not edit it. I started to panic, as the Agency had my info, and who knew what that black list thing meant. TER told me I could write a new review and it would supercede the previous one. Then no one could see the old review. That is what I did.  A couple months later the agency was busted.  

Long story short, it is not worth the hassle to write a bad review.

I will tell you my experience.

I gave a woman with a Rating 8.74 (Looks 8.22 / Performance 9.25), a rating of 6/2.  How could I justify it?  I wrote a very long detailed description of the appointment, and I allowed the readers to decide.

 Strangely, several private messages saying  " I had a similar terrible experience with her last year. Worst appointment I've ever had. "  and "I saw a little of that but not nearly the alarming behavior"

Several of the messages concluded that she was great when she wanted to be, but terrible otherwise.  

Write the review, but carefully explain why is was such a bad appointment.  After all, one man write me, "I am sure you saved someone from a horrible session. I know that review was not easy to write."

I never heard from the woman.

I didn’t even take the time to read it, could only laugh and feel ur pain. Ur lucky her husband or boyfriend didn’t threaten to out you. She was a lot of fun at one time but had serious issues.

...at some point I may need a referral.  One reason why I don't post a bad or average review is because at some point I may need that provider as a reference.  It's pretty easy to find if someone you say posted a bad or average review.

Back when TER was created it was solely for the benefit of hobbyist. The founder was tired of the random chances of hit or miss.

Guys jumped on it posting open examples of experiences good or bad. They weren’t afraid of reprisals or being black listed. Thought themselves immune.  

The reviews came and guys could research the possible encounter of the unknown with feedback from other hobbyists.

Ladies were welcome to join in discussions then later allowed to post ads. The ladies had to pay for membship to see the details of there reviews and those of possible clients. They had information to help screen by contacting those reviewed by new clients.

TER depends on revenue. Providers were paying so they became important to TER as much as the guys.

Eventually they learned how to know who posted their reviews, positive or negative. Buy many guys thought they were posting anonymously and still thinking there wouldn’t be backlash from posting a less than favorable review. Not long after many realized how wrong they were, blacklisting started.

So TER has allowed alias names that could allow guys to post thinking they were immune to reprisals. Then TER allowed Aliases to post reviews, guys thought this was a solution to reprisals for posting bad reviews. But when you post too much detail it’s not difficult to determine who they are especially if the guy that they saw didn’t post a favorable review using there original handle.

So here we are today. Who is dominant and in control of TER? My opinion, providers. Heaven forbid you post a review that while not favorable, but honest. You could be cut off of seeing others if they black list you or you’re looking to see someone and they read your reviews. They absolutely will look, if they know how to search your name in TER by email address.  

If you review low on average or post harsh scores for others that usually have decent scores, they may not want to risk there averages being reduced.

But ok, when you feel it was awful while most others have had decent experiences and you decide to post asking others such as this thread, at least detail what it was that made it awful.  

Then go look at her reviews, have others had a similar experience as you? Could this be an off day? Do you think or know what the cause of it being awful was?  

Bad or harsh negative reviews that cannot be written with some decency or understanding that it just wasn’t meant to be but only hard facts against someone who is well know and has good reviews otherwise may come with a cost you’re not willing to pay.

I wish you would provided additional information. After this much time you could determine what the cause was and maybe have been open enough to talk to her, she might be open to a make up, but even if not or you’re not interested, you can let it go as 1 bad experiences  in 100.

I seldom write a review if they already have good active level of reviews. I may not write a review if I felt there were underlying circumstances that are not habitual. And overall if I feel others might benefit to providing a low score it’s usually performance and should not affect appearance yet many lower on both ends of the scale.  

But if appearance such as old pictures, gained a lot of weight, ok low appearance scored being kind in detailing that in review, but honest performance scores because most of the time they still know how to get a guy off. Yet guys will lowers both if looks are not best, they forget how good it was.

I really wish the OP would come back and comment or I feel we are talking to a wall.

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Okay, so here’s how it went.  

I made arrangements for a 90-min date & noted what I liked. Wear something sexy. Pantyhose, stockings, etc. We exchanged a few texts & she liked the idea of a bottle of wine. It took a little while for her to get to the hotel. It was a nice place, so that was a plus.  

Got to the room & she was cute. She wore jeans & a sweater. Had a nice welcome kiss & she was complementary to me. Excused herself to freshen up. We talked a little & kissed. She asked if I wanted a massage & pulled out some lotion from her bag. She made a comment that she didn’t have her oil, but oh well. The massage was a little weak. I went down on her and I spent a good amount of time enjoying her taste. She came and she started to return the favor. When I popped, it was good, but it was all over my stomach. I was okay with that. We cuddled for a little while and she seemed like it was whining about her day. Not a turn on and at that point, I just wanted to go home. It was very obvious that the date was over, so I got dressed and left. I want to say I was there less than a hour. I basically left shaking my head and kicking myself for wasting my time.  

I’m a rookie, so I was expecting a little more than she offered. I was a gentleman and maybe I should have been a little more forward, but when it was all said and done, I didn’t feel like I got what I should have.

Given those details and your admission of being a rookie, my decades of experience says, do not write review.  This is a chalk one up to inexperience. You chose to finish orally. She probably assumed you were one and done.  

In future, communicate your desires to copulate and finish inside her. Bluntly said here so there is no confusion, but you need to say it more delicately!  

Yes some escorts, have long days, esp those from agencies that are pretty and fully booked. There are strategies to booking a visiting escort early in her visit, or doing morning appointments. Some guys are happy to just get off any way we can, esp the older ones. I prefer to follow your scenario, but stop short of oral finish and ask for switch to fucking (doggy).  In my younger days, I would let my date know, during the first five minutes, that my expectation was that I was going to have multiple scores on the goal. That clears the air of expectations. If her pussy is sore from too much activity, she will try to beg off, and you know not to book her again. In that case you write a nice review and say you only got round off. End of story.  

Hope that helps.

Yeah, I’m not taking it much further than here.  

It was just good to get it off my chest.