I introduced Sariah Soffel to this community because i have met and the pleasure of spending time with so many wonderful individuals. And you are all aware that i introduced her to our DC board. My post CLEARLY stated that i screen and book for her. I have tried to mentor her to  provide the same level of service that i do. So please tell me why is it that so many of you, who are veterans, not newbies, are acting like complete JERKS! I do not appreciate anyone taking advantage of her, her time or the fact that she is young and inexperienced. I have NEVER in my 5 years being here, had to deal with such nonsense.

For example..

-She's had to deal with campers... (over 30 min some 45 minutes!!)
-People being over an hour late and still expecting to be seen.
-Cancelling 30 minutes before the appt.
-asking for her PERSONAL cell phone and email (are you kidding me?????)

And this is by far the most unacceptable...
-3x's now she has been degraded and made to feel like a piece of meat.


I will not tolerate it and i have spoken to those of you who have had these incidents.

Kindness, respect, courtesy and consideration of ones time go a long long way.

No one has ever treated me this way. Everyone i have spent time with has been polite, courteous, respectful, kind, and a lot of fun.

Sariah actually LOVES doing what she does. She truly enjoys it and has so much excitement over it. When these few bad apples are thrown in the bunch it can ruin a girls day, week etc...

So in closing, research who you are going to see. She has 4 reviews that give a very accurate depiction of who she is and what time spent with her is like.

It is not right to take advantage of someone who is BRAND NEW and naive to this community.
A lady deserves to be treated with respect.


~ Mea Mendez

very much. Thank you. I will tell her you said so.

This is really disgusting and pathetic and speaks to their worth as individuals. I would, for starters, out each and every one of those assholes on the providers board.

I have been told, from time to time, TER patrons, who are pretty much respected here, can be and sometimes are flagrant offenders, trying to bully their way around predetermined set limits.

Whomever they are rip them a new one Mea. Oh, and let me know if I should call Tony down from Jersey.

its just the fact that they know she's new, young and isnt working for some agency so guys are trying to take advantage. Its only been a few but thats a few too many. She's trying to make her way on her own and i'm trying to guide her. There is no way in hell i'm going to keep quiet when some is so disgustingly disrespectful or rude.

When i had a booker no one EVER asked for my private number! She has a business line and thats what's used to contact her. Its just ridiculous.

Is Tony on his way???

Why do people have to make me bring out my Spicy side Sswede?????

Cant we all just treat each other with kindness and respect??

If you want a long menu list, fetish, role play, PSE then SEARCH for it!!!

Ugh.. okay. I'm not going to get my panties in a bunch anymore!

*hugs to you Sswede*

Not two sides to every story, everyone i spoke to about it apologized. She has been here for a few weeks now and some of my regulars have seen her and she didnt know i knew them. She loved them and they loved her.  She can come across as timid and naive and thats why this is happening. Nothing fishy about it buddy.

her ad was posted yesterday. I dont think i can post it here. You have to scroll down and look for UD. Sariah Soffel.

Please Mea.. most of us can read right through this.. you post something about a girl that you help out .. white knights come out and all say how good you are or she is and she gets more publicity here. more publicity means more appointments.. more appointments means more $$s for her and also you as you help her out..

good move.. but sooner or later the reviews come out and the truth will come out...

And they seem to be coming to my friend. Well let me just say they picked the wrong one! She's got me at her back. I posted this to make gentleman aware that she is not that kind of girl. If that is what you want there are search options and plenty of choices to choose from. She is very sweet, extremely intelligent and well spoken and actually loves meeting new people. I dont want her to be tainted.  It does only take a few apples to ruin the bunch. But i know DC guys are better than that.

Ugh dude, huni, guy, girl whoever the hell you are hiding back there, she already has reviews and will continue to get reviews. You're obviously new to this community or you would know i don't "pull stunts for publicity" Trust me when i say that i sure as hell don't need additional advertisement for myself or for Sariah. You must also be one of the imbeciles i was referring to.

i posted it. Just because they were verified and didn't do it to someone else doesn't mean they aren't doing it all. It happens ALL the time to new agencies girls. You guys just never hear about it. But trust me that they wont be doing it again if i can help it. Calling a girl a B*!@$, you F-ing whore throwing her around and saying a slew of other nasty disgusting things WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. The reason things like this continue to happen to girls is because people are too afraid to speak up or they hide behind their pathetic aliases.

Everyone is in this for a good time and there is someone out there for everyone, for every fetish, fantasy, role play etc... i am not that girl nor is she. If you read the reviews you would know that. Sariah has 4 so far and i have i think 10 pages. So this is not a guessing game fellas. Think what you want about this being additional advertisement, honestly that's absurd. Those kinds of thoughts do not cross my mind. Those that know me, Mea, know i am not that girl.

I'm sorry its so hard for some of you to believe that i am actually truly trying to help someone and mentor her so she isn't jaded or caught up in some unnecessary nonsense. I believe in Karma...

good night

This girl is a true gem and definitely deserves to e treated better!!!!!

A brand new provider has multiple bad experiences with veteran hobbyists.

You say that no one has treated you this way in five years in this community, yet you don't see anything strange about her having so many problems in such a short time.

While I agree it is possible that suddenly and for no apparent reason this new provider has been treated badly , It is also possible that SHE is the problem , or at least part of it.

There are two sides to every story.

Would love to meet up with her.

Mea, it is unfortunate to read about some of her experience. I hope she hangs in there. I will also encourage her to be more assertive in her dealings. It may discourage the few bad ones from attempting to take advantage of her. Take care!

I say good on you for speaking up, this is bush league if seasoned hobbyist are pulling crap like being an hour late but wanting to still be seen...yet how many threads are posted on this board each month about people all up in arms over providers doing just that and how it's off with their heads!

And as far as you being a pimp, you have been COMPLETELY up front from the start about your involvement in helping her get started, and after meeting you I have 100% confidence that there are no hidden agendas or "pimp" activities going on here with Sariah being under your wing...call me a WK all anyone wants, I'm good with that. But it's funny that people blast away on providers all day long on here and then when someone speaks up to call out stunts DC hobbyists pull that should know better, there "is something fishy going on".

Keep on doing what your doing and if that requires putting people on blast then do it Mea, a helping of crow never hurt anyone from time to time

This sounds uncomfortably close to some things I've been experiencing lately. I've seen a few of new ladies (Indy & agency) over the last few weeks that have been very (visibly) upset by the way some clients are treating them. Pushing well beyond the limits and even trying for bbfs.  It seems that they equate new with weak / stupid. One lady decided that the risk outweighs the reward and is not going to return to the area. I took her out for some fresh air and coffee then dropped her at the airport.
I don't think this is the way most DC clients conduct themselves but a few bad apples can ruin it for all of us and it appears we need to check the basket.

And dealing with Mea was a pleasure.   So much so that I am thinking about meeting her,  too.

"I'm sorry its so hard for some of you to believe that i am actually truly trying to help someone and mentor her so she isn't jaded or caught up in some unnecessary nonsense. I believe in Karma"

IMHO - This is just another example of people not able to grasp that concept. Seems if it doesn't fit in the box then it can't be accepted.

I am a bit shocked at some of the anonymous posts, but then again I guess sometimes we rattle the cages because nothing else is stirring.

I for one know you aren't a pimp, or trying to play games, you are always straight with me, so I have no other opinion but a good one.

Hope you don't loose sleep over this.

ST

just more people who do not like people hiding behind aliases as they trash someone they do not know.

But I do admit posts like yours are good for a laugh.  A ridiculing, derisive laugh, but a laugh nonetheless.

Finally someone who thought the same as I...

It is a very nicely done clever publicity. Not that it is prohibited when disguised properly. Probably has some truth to it but most likely amplified and exaggerated greatly.  I'm sure she'll do well when she has a mentor and a bunch of WKs feeding her clever marketing.

I do not condemn the practice, it's very clever actually.  However, my top favorite ladies are the type that don't even need to advertise anymore, let alone cleverly disguise anything anywhere.

you're doing a very good job of screening and booking her if things are so overwhelmingly bad that you need to come here and vent about it to us.  I would suggest that the young woman align herself with an agency or booker better equipped to handle such matters.  

It's also highly unprofessional to do a blanket venting.  What does telling us that you have problem customers really accomplish?

You seem to have no reason to doubt what happened other than WHAT?  That a provider posted it?  So you assume it is nothing other than advertizing?  How thoroughly openminded of you.  And--no shock--posted with an alias.

Why don't you take your own advice and wait for the reviews before you start trashing someone.

She has reviews.  Just read them!!!

...puts the offenders on notice that they may soon show up on DNS lists.  Hopefully further mistreatment of providers will garner the cooperation of TER to out offenders behind the aliases and make further hobbying extremely difficult for them.  I think her post could do a lot of good

If someone really did that you need to ban the person and report it to the community.

Yes you are trying to help someone advertise. This is nothing but a clever advertisement. I read Sariah's reviews. She does have good reviews and she will do great in this business.

Thanks for playing, but we are not dumb and can see right through it.

But accusations without evidence is bad form, if not makes one look like an idiot.

I'm willing to give Mea the benefit of the doubt. I know there are rude dudes in this hobby and, besides, Sariah seems to be doing very well.

No sympathy from me considering Mea organized the screening.  She would not accept a P411 verification with multiple OK's, but believes her own process is superior.  If this is not for publicity it is a CYA exercise.

..."Oh, and let me know if I should call Tony down from Jersey"
Y'all crack me up!!

You obviously have never dealt with Mea so you are speculating about things you know nothing about. How do I know this?

Because *anyone* who has dealt with Mea knows she is honest, fair and intelligent. Mea does not scam or deceive nor put up with BS like your post.  She is one of DC's finest providers and a wonderful lady to be around.

Notice unlike many in this thread I'm not using an alias.  I'm also not trying to curry favor with Mea or anyone else.

I've never met Sariah but if she's a friend of Mea's I'm sure she's great. It's a shame that people have treated her the way Mea described. And people like you should be ashamed of your post.

This at least brought one thing to light.. There are more White Knights that I had previously thought.

Mea, although I have never met you, I have utmost respect for you from what I have gathered over the years of posting hers. First, why don't you bring out the culprits into the open. Whenever a guy here gets taken advantage of, he brings it out in the open. Second, you know as well as I do that people will take full advantage of whatever opportunity presents itself. From what you say, she was poorly prepared on how to deal with goofballs who overstay their welcome and try to snoop into her personal life. If you mentored her than these things should have been prepared for from day one.

If the goofballs are taking advantage of an inexperienced friend of yours. I suggest that you call them out on it. Heck, if sariah was butt ugly, stunk, had no bedroom skills and rushed the dude out the door. I am sure that the hobby community would know about it through the boards and reviews.

Mea, I told you you're too nice for this BS.
Screening for others and sticking up for girls will only get you frustrated and exhausted. You see how the jerks who have negative comments use an alias Lol They've obviously never met you and know nothing of your character which is not a surprise as Im sure they patronize meat market agencies and could give a fuck less about how girls are treated. In fact they stand for treating girls like crap so that the prices stay low and the alphabet soup flows abundantly Lol
Women like you who stick up for fair treatment of new escorts are a problem for guys who like to take advantage of fresh meat...Hey! they pay so they should get their way hahahaha! Hilarious!

Anyway bravo to you for helping this young lady out and dont let these guys affect you. We both know there's a lot of nice guys here and there are a lot of idiots here too...ignore the idiots!

I wonder if Sariah knows her own password?

Most conspiracy nut cases cannot read.

...the various providers only boards and/or blacklist sites.
That is the intent and  purpose for having Providers only boards/forums.
If it was bad enough to blast it publicly then it's only fair to inform other Providers of ill-willed clients.
So, is there any intent to do so?
.....waiting..hmmmm

-- Modified on 8/31/2011 3:37:50 PM

For shame Sswede... if you really knew Tony, you'd know he's not from Jersey, he's from Joisey!!!

She doesn't appear to have helped the young lady at all.  Several times Sariah was subject to poor treatment by clients, and now Mea has come here to vent about it without actually mentioning names, making both her and Sariah appear even more vulnerable and defenseless.  Instead of pretending to be an expert on screening and mentoring new escorts, she should bow out and refer the young woman to someone who can look after her interests a lot better.  In my opinion, an incompetent screener/booker/security provider is as dangerous as the predators they profess to be able to protect these ladies from.  If Mea is somehow profiting from this arrangement, that makes it even worse.    

I get upset when young women fall victim to incompetence.  As the owner of an agency, you should be too.

I think teaching Sariah to sreen clients, and book appointments for herself would benefit every aspect of her career. She sure wouldn't put up with any mongers bullshit if she did all this her self.