Say, "I understand your services have changed and I would still like to visit with you, shoot me an email if you're interested. I'd love to see you"

Dont ask her why she didnt contact you or anything...its weird.

So I met a really pretty and nice provider last September, and our first meeting was through an agency but after that first meeting she gave me her personal number for me to contact her. We met several times after, about 6 or so, and everything between us was great. we got along, played no games, it was straight P4P and no drama... but about 2 months ago she told me that she was moving down south and that if she was ever in town again she would let me know...

well today, as I was looking at some reviews, I see an ad that is obviously her. she was using some of the same pictures from her ads with the agency, the current pics are of her (she can't be forgotten if you saw her), and even the way she describes herself confirms it even further.  she is no longer providing FS, just FBSM, and is obviously in the area. i don't know why she told me that she was moving down south? maybe she was and moved back??

anyways, I want to contact her, but not sure if I should, or how to go about it... should I be straight up with her and tell her I saw her ad and would just like a FBSM?. I'm thinking she told me she was leaving b/c she didn't want to do the FS thing anymore... but honestly, I just want to see her again... FS or not.

please let me know your thoughts on how I should contact her.

thanks,

dr.

Just because she came back or decided not to leave doesn't mean she meant to deceive you. Just give her a call.

Seriously.  What's the worst that could happen?  She doesn't return your call?

What's her number, I'll call her for you.

is her not returning my call... I want to word things right and not make things weird or scare her off... PureGirlFriends has so far given the best and appropriate response.

Of course they did.

....So you guys hit it off and all was well.  Then she gives you a story (I'm movinng down South) to strongly indicate that you 2 will probably see each other again.   THEN she surfaces with diff name; diff PICs (to the point that only you or those who have seen her would know); and diff services.

Dude don't ignore the Elephant in the room!!!  She does not want to see you again for the following possible reasons:

- She saw you catching feelings (which you sound like you did) and shs did not want that.

- Guilt or some other plausible reason put a stop to her offering FS.  AND she wants to cut ties with all previous FS clients.

- It was all the money and one of the reasons they call us tricks and what the provider does as "tricken."  All them good vibes you were feelin were one way and you fell for the trick.

-  She has reached her monetary goals and now wants to dial it back to FBSM only.

Dude I think you are on thin ice and moving toward being labeled the dreaded S word. STALKER. Call her again and schedule a visit and really check her attitude about your presence if you feel that you are NOT being received as before then NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN. NO QUESTIONS. JUST WALK.

that is not the response I wanted to hear, but it probably is the truth....

its too bad too, b/c this chick was hot! not cute, not pretty, but hot... and those are kinda hard to come by around here...

I've been called a lot of things in my day, but i am in no way a stalker... a new review came up, and that is how i found out.

a stalker is someone who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention (dictionary)...

just having some fun bnk1999, not trying to be a dick...

anyways, i may contact her and gauge her response. i mean if she's not cool with seeing me anyways, what do i have to loose except for a little self esteem...

okay, maybe i am a little obsessive, but dood, this chick was hot... i mean one of the hottest chicks i've ever been with, and i've been hobbying for about 8 years now...

When was the last time a guy actually admitted he was a STALKER...Hahaha too funny.  They don't because to them it never feels like stalking.  But ask any lady how many times she feels like she has been stalked by a man.  VERY DIFFERENT ANSWER.

Anyways guy, if you read my message again I did not say that you were a STALKER but that you are on that path.  

This reply message makes it sound even more so to me.  "Oh but she so HOT blah blah blah..."

Good luck guy.

S T A L K E R....and stalkers are not just harassers. Most stalkers actually believe the victim really LIKES them. They block out the obvious signs that the person wants nothing to do with you.

Some good advice here.  

Move on.

unless i missed it, he never said he reviewed her

you are right, there are plenty of nice looking ladies in the area....

I think you should move on. The hobby is about variety. She probably thought you and others were getting to close to her.

I recommend that you don't see the same provider unless it has been 30 days to 60 days. Best to keep the distance so both you won't get attached to each other.

. . . that's one thing I learn in this hobby.

Just give her a call and get a FBSM.