I was with a provider who was advertised as GFE. And while she was friendly and nice and accomodating there was no DFK which disappointed me because that's a real mood helper. Is this a YMMV situation? I'm not ugly or anything (at least I don't think so). What makes a provider decide if you get DFK or not?

Kind of funny in a way -- in "real life" you might only get a good kiss from a date but in the hobby world you might get everything but that kiss.

Would you want to DFK every woman you saw walking down the street?

It's completely up to the lady who she swaps spit with. Maybe you just didn't make the grade for whatever reasons she may have.

Do you know if she DFKs typically? I am not saying what she advertizing on her AD, but does she have any reviews to go with it..?