My short and simple answer is “Yes. It is rude to ask a lady that.”
However for you gentlemen, is there a less direct or more acceptable way to broach the subject? I can see that if it’s an issue for the gent, he shouldn't book if he's not comfortable knowing - make sense? The origin of the question has nothing to do with jealousy, its being “uncomfortable with NOT knowing" said one gentleman.
I am sitting here wondering why one would want to ask whether he was the first of the day and additionally what does it matter....
“I would say that there’s a pretty good chance that being number 5,” he continued, chances are pretty fair that she’s not quite as on as the first time though... “
I can understand that point, however....and as long as a lady is on her game and  treats you right, what does it matter if you are first or fifth? After all, this is about fantasy and by you asking takes us out of the fantasy and honestly, it’s usually better to not know such details

Sometimes no knowing Helps to feed the mind and fan the flames of the fantasy.

What are your thoughts?

Its really known of my business. The only reason I would care is if I wanted to extend things or go to lunch or dinner.
The ladies have a personal life and we should respect that.

Look I personally don't care if I am 2nd or 3rd or even 4th though I never have thought that I was.
Ladies take care of business between appointments.  Shower and clean up for the next gent.
I see low volume ladies that don't see more than 3 in a day.  Most gals I see have 1 or at most 2 appts per day.  Or at least that is what they tell me.  I don't see agency ladies and I usually play late morning or early afternoon.  If I am entertaining an outcall I always have things availiabe to freshen up......

if you book significantly in advance ... to ask if you can be the first of the day, so long as you are willing to meet the lady when she is ready to start her day, even if it is 7 AM in the morning.

In that case, who cares how many other men she will see that day because you will be the first one ...

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It seems to me that if it matters to a guy that he be the first appointment of the day (and what matters to him is up to him, right?), he should ask at the time of making an appointment: "What time would I need to see you to be your first appointment of the day?"  Then the lady can either answer the question, or else decline to answer the question, if she prefers.  In which case he presumably moves on.

The answer is "Yes." Odds are she's not a virgin.

I can't stand it! A man who asks that question just for the sheer reason of knowing, automatically becomes a man with no class, as far as I'm concerned.

There are certain things you do not ask a lady, and that is one of them! Unless of coarse, as mentioned above, it gets him hot and turned on.  Which in that case I'll give him the green light.....the freaky little fucker!


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