It seems to me that if it matters to a guy that he be the first appointment of the day (and what matters to him is up to him, right?), he should ask at the time of making an appointment: "What time would I need to see you to be your first appointment of the day?" Then the lady can either answer the question, or else decline to answer the question, if she prefers. In which case he presumably moves on.
Posted By: YourDCMuse
My short and simple answer is “Yes. It is rude to ask a lady that.”
However for you gentlemen, is there a less direct or more acceptable way to broach the subject? I can see that if it’s an issue for the gent, he shouldn't book if he's not comfortable knowing - make sense? The origin of the question has nothing to do with jealousy, its being “uncomfortable with NOT knowing" said one gentleman.
I am sitting here wondering why one would want to ask whether he was the first of the day and additionally what does it matter....
“I would say that there’s a pretty good chance that being number 5,” he continued, chances are pretty fair that she’s not quite as on as the first time though... “
I can understand that point, however....and as long as a lady is on her game and treats you right, what does it matter if you are first or fifth? After all, this is about fantasy and by you asking takes us out of the fantasy and honestly, it’s usually better to not know such details
Sometimes no knowing Helps to feed the mind and fan the flames of the fantasy.
What are your thoughts?
