Often on this Board and other boards , the subject of negotiating rates and services with ladies came up. The consensus of the issue as I saw it was : Gentlemen dont negotiate and if you do negotiate and get a good deal, for god's sake keep your mouth shut and dont brag.  

I receive "arranged" sessions often.  Thank you ladies and I'll NEVER tell.

... and if they have to brag to feel big they don't deserve it.  Shame.

certainly if a provider accepts negotiation for a reduced rate or grandfathers you in at an older rate when she is raising her publicly this should just be between you two.  It does not make you a "stud" or make you any better than anyone else - you should count yourself fortunate and realize that by bragging you damage the provider who did you a favor and show yourself to be an unreliable immature ass.

Very interesting.

that her prices are too high is if potential clients don't schedule an appointment with her.

efforts, so for the time, effort (screening, traveling to & from) & money still spent, why bother?  Pay her going rate, & skip the ones above your price point.  If enough skip, their price point will come down ... if not, good for them!
 

If you get something extra, or a lower rate or see someone off the clock, do not tell even someone who you consider a “friend” That friend will most likely tell someone else and you  may not have been intending to brag, but news can spread fast. This is a pretty small community and word travels.

that certainly WOULD deliver a message.  How could it not?  She might be annoyed (and may not negotiate with any of those guys individually), but it would bring home an economic point (assuming that the actual number of appts dropped too).  Mind you, I would NEVER do this myself, as I just look, admire, then skip over any lady outside of my comfort zone.  I have an appt coming up soon with a lovely lady who offered a modest special - but it was enough to put her at my ceiling price.  I actually mentioned this to her when scheduling.  I figure feedback is good.  Yeah, there was a slight risk that she could have reacted in some way to this mention, perhaps thinking it was a breech of decorum - but since I was THANKING her for the special at the same time, I went ahead anyway.  No problem

I am laughing very hard.

fathom the backlash if I start blurting... and I really don't want to. i'd much rather be squirting hahahahaha!

i agree. you make an innocent comment and she could take it the wrong way. people that get offended easily are a turn off so maybe its good to know if theyre like that.

as that is something that I thought about when I added that comment (if she was offended, then it would be an indicator that we wouldn't be a good match).  Some of this lady's web site text actually is a bit of a turn-off to me for that very reason.  But, after reading reviews of her, she sounded more like the down-to-earth fun type that I like, so I'm thinking some of her web persona is probably just a young lady who is a bit immature in expressing herself and understanding the impact those words can have.  I'll find out for sure soon enough...

Come on 50 bucks babe.....? Xoxoxo

Ridiculous.  At best it makes you look foolsh. At worst it stirs up controversy, discontent, and causes XDog to use the whole thing as an object lesson for the rest of us.

Point being....STFU if you and a young lady come to "agreements"

It's kinda a double edged soared.  As noted by others, attempts to explicitly negotiate are futile and open you to being "perceived" as cheap.  Hence, I just keep it moving when I come across potentials who are out of my hobby budget.

"HOWEVER:  the annoying part, in particular with the so called VIP types, they post, IMHO, outrageous hourly rates such as $800 per plus. "