When scheduling with a provider has multiple levels of service such as massage, GFE, nuru, PSE, what is the right way to indicate the desired level of service without crossing any lines in the content?

there is no reason to be discrete.  If you just want the basic, no need to mention anything except length of session.  If you want a higher level of advertised service,  just tell the booker what advertised level you would enjoy.

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...ask your friend if you can ask about services explicitly by PM, for example through TER or P411.  Some ladies are more agreeable to discussing these things by PM than by email or phone/text.  The worst that can happen is she says she won't discuss it.

As far as being polite and proper ettiquette i would say the best way to ask is if the provider is openminded... always remember that when a provider answers the phone and hears you slewing off acronyms and certain things that only a hobbyists would know and not asking too many questions will give the lady a better feeling because LE always asks stupid questions that all of us all ready know andthey most likely arent too hip on all of our acronyms either,lol. Same goes for you fellas who call a provider who is unheard of and youre taking a chance, if she keeps asking about method of compensation in trade for what not you may want to try someone more reputable....like me,lol

No need to say more.

Just order the exact menu item you want. Use the same name for the service that she uses in the menu. This is the only way to avoid confusion. Be specific.