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holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 68 reads
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She should know enough to blacklist him.

A provider friend of mine had an overnight session with a new client, and he didn’t pay at all. I don’t know how this happened because usually the custom is to leave the money as soon as you walk in, but somehow it happened. Obviously, what a POS that guy is, and he deserves every bit of bad karma coming his way.

She’s not gonna get the money, but I suggested to her that when she has the time she can get the contact information for providers in her area and email or text them to tell them to stay away from this scum. I also suggested that she could make a post on TER in the discussion board for her city to further expose this guy.

What a bummer . . .

I'd never pull a stunt like that. I did have a  gal with whom I'd booked her last session of the evening ask me to stay the night. I guess it can get kind of lonely on the road by herself. The next morning she roused my morning wood with another round. We went out and I bought her breakfast before bidding her adieu.

She needs to post this asshole’s details on the Provider Only board so other ladies can know.

She should know enough to blacklist him.

I’m surprised that providers haven’t commented yet. All those I know require a significant deposit to beforehand. And all say the remaining gift has to be dealt with upon arrival and before the play. Who know what information she got of his. But definitely it needs to be shared with others providers. This person might feel he can get away with this again and will likely try. I’m hoping the ladies here are reaching out to you to find out who she is and help prevent this from happening again.  

Curious overnights are extremely expensive usually over 2k . That’s a lot of money to loose. But some college courses are expensive also. How long has she been in this and I’m guessing she’s young. Is she hot? You see her more than once? Maybe it’s time to splurge and help her out with multiple hour booking.

Sad story but thanks for sharing. It will educate others I’m sure. I hope she recovers quickly and doesn’t quit over this.

Cya
Slip

She’s actually not new to this. She’s an experienced provider, and yes she is hot. That’s why I’m confused as to how she let this a$$hat get away with it. I’ve asked her for details but I haven’t heard from her yet.  

I’ve been with her several times. She’s a good person. Maybe she was too trusting.  

Any providers are welcome to DM me and I can provide details about the provider and the guy who ripped her off.

It would be aweful if she had good references from other providers that she counted on. It would also be aweful if she just assumed the gift was placed somewhere in the room and she was so trusting and confident it would be there after, how horrible. How can he live with himself knowing he stiffed her. It befuddles me just thinking about it  

Cya
Slip

In 15 years, and many hundreds of sessions I have never paid a deposit.
And I never will.  Paying a deposit is unnecessary and is just asking to be riped-off.
IMHO.

I know her, she's a liar!!! She's lying as easily as drinking a glass of water!!! Specially she spent the whole night without getting paid!!! No Shitting it's not her personality!!! I don't want to expose her and definitely, I am not that guy she claimed ripped her off just I know her well enough to say she's lying!!!

I don't recall a provider ever looking in the envelope while I was there.  He could have given her an empty one.

If she left it out he could have taken it back on his way out.

One provider told me about a client who insulted her at the end of the session and grossly underpaid.  Yet, she was still waiting until end of session to ask for payment when we met.  I have also heard worse.

I read about one who made payment to an SA girl upon her arrival via an online service that allowed him to reverse the payment afterwards.  She complained to SA.  SA kicked them both off the site, LOL.

Deposit?  I never heard of anyone who paid a deposit in advance and wasn't ghosted by the supposed provider.  Typically they set up a two call/text system, ask for the deposit after the first call/text, then never pick up or block the second call/text.  That said, guys are often no-shows too, so I understand why completely legitimate providers would ask for deposits.

I would have less of an issue with a deposit if it was a very well known and well reviewed lady.

 
I have paid one or two deposits and never had a problem. I also just paid one for an upcoming appointment to a lady well known on the GD board. I have every confidence that I won't be ripped off. I would certainly make it known if I had any problem.

AsianManNOVA76 reads

The only time I paid a deposit was to the number one provider on the TER top 100 about 10 years ago. She charged 2K for 2 hrs and asked for a 1K deposit. However, I think the hobby environment has changed a lot since then so I don't think I would do it again. I am also more cautious as I got older.

I, too, am more cautious the longer I do this.

 
The first time I was asked for a deposit was probably about 5 years ago. The lady took Venmo and I had some issues setting it up as a new user and she didn't make a big deal about it and told me if I had a problem to just forget the deposit. That gave me some confidence so I got my problems resolved and sent it to her. I was not disappointed.

 
I would take a deposit on a case-by-case basis and judge each woman as an individual. I certainly would not pay a deposit to any women who went with only an ad on a site like Eros or STG - no way.

What is a GD board??? I'm new to DC area

She can post his information on plenty of platforms. She should of taken care of business first. If I am traveling I hate having lots of cash. I have required a 50% deposit to book, since 2009. Most of my friends will pay in full, so it’s never an issue during the date. It allows you a the ability to focus on the fun only. Smile for me! Sharing is caring. Sorry that happened to her. Always get the tribute first before providing anything & use a counterfeit pen it’s a business ladies. I am a professional woman of leisure!

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