Hey all.  

I'd like to get some opinions on what warning signs may be if an ATF starts taking things too seriously.  

I'm pretty new to the hobby, but have seen a few things from my ATF that seem they could mean something, but would like some confirmation that I'm not mis-reading things.  Would like to hear opinions from providers and hobbiests...


Thanks...

If she's not, you've got no worries.

I would agree 100% with JBnewbie...seeing your ATF "off the clock" suggests she is loving it as much as you are.  
Another "test" would be if she began giving you gifts...
Whether you feel that this represents "taking things too seriously" or not is your own read.
In my experience, true ATF's are few and far between...the term ATF should not be used lightly.  Actually...I've only had two, come to think of it.
Anyway, remember that providers want to "hook you" if they value you as a client...creating the impression of exclusivity.  
The ATF concept is largely in our minds...not the provider's!
But...enjoy!

Not to be too nosy, but you have to provide us with details if you want our opinion, such as what these "signs" are.  Your question is too vague for us to give any valid opinions.

Hope you understand.

Nice analysis, blue

1 - You find her at home talking to your SO.
2 - She starts talking about kids - then tells you it's OK to BBFS, shes on the pill.
3 - You believed her and start noticing she has put on a few pounds and her breast are getting larger, and are dripping this funny white liquid - which she offers you - LOL.
4 - She gives you a key to her place - and it looks a lot like the one for yours.
5 - She offers you all the sex you want for free - and you lose interest in the first week.
6 - She offers you all the free sex you want, yet you might as well pay because you aren't getting anymore then you get from your SO.
7 - She invites you to meet her parents, brothers, sisters, cousins, and pimp.
8 - She gets undressed, and your TER handle is tattoo'd on her ass, Slipry's Property.
9 - She put the cover on you - and it's open on both ends.
10 - She puts a cover on you and the wrapper says "Disolves in Warm Wet Envoirnments".

Sorry - I'm no good at telling the signs.

Back when the MoCo AMPs were open, a girl there gave me a new watch for Christmas. It was really weird. A free or discounted session would have somehow been more normal.

11. She "Photoshop's" you into her pics on her website
12. She gives YOU an envelope at the beginning of the session
13. She sets her touring schedule around your travel schedule

I'm running out of clues

OMG!!!!!!  That's REALLY scary! And I would be outta there lickity split, so to speak! lol

EOM

Perfect!
These are clearly clues!

gosh slipry...so if all are true...I guess I've got some issues to deal with!

Ah RR, but if I were to provide my "clues" I could sway opinion one way or another.  I was hoping to see some people mention some of the signs I have seen with this girl...and I haven't seen all of them listed in responses, but have seen a few of them.  So, guess I've got to decide wether to go with it, or steer it back to a purely business thing.

Thanks Doc.

My hobbying days may be short, but this girl fits the ATF definition not only in my book, but also to the reviews of other's ATFs.  

With my luck, she'll show up on my doorstep with her suitcases filled with her belongings.

When she starts asking you things like :

How do you feel about dating someone in the business ?  

Or when she wants to know where you hang out and wants to know if it would be okay to show up and have a drink with you and your golfing buddies.

How about if she suggest coming to your house or you come to hers instead of her incall.

Or she wants you to meet her friends.  

I would say even if she wants you to spend the night off the clock, to cuddle, hang out and do things that say hey " we are boyfriend and girlfriend. "  

I wouldn't read so much into it if she buys you a gift unless you just met her and or it is a very intimate gift or something expensive.  I have bought gifts for some of my clients for Christmas or birthdays to show how much I appreciate them.  After all they have spent some pretty good amount of money on me in a year.

Also, and if a lady sees you off the clock, that doesn't always mean anything either.  I usually have dinner or lunch with a few of my clients before or after our date but only at their request.

I think the main way to tell is if she wants to be apart of your other world.  That is crossing boundries.