If TER is without ads for the near term or forever, we should obviously share other contact information from each other outside of TER.  

Trusted references should be shared if you think that the pair (or trio) would click. These can be women sharing with other women about men that they think they might hit it off with; men with sharing men about women on a similar basis; or men and women recommending each other to each other. Particularly for the ladies that tour or men who see touring ladies, there is no point in jealousy or possessiveness; we need each other. Even for locals to locals, let's not be possessive.  

We probably all need to be careful about contact information, and we will all need new G-Mail addresses. I have real name information and have given it out too. We need to be careful about this.