Have been traveling in the past few weeks and only now get a chance to vent a little bit. About two weeks ago I finally was able to connect with a sobe contestant and had a reasonable time. She is young and sweet; but there are a few buzz-killers. First is that she only brought one raincoat. Then after half of the session she started to talk about the time. I understand that it is a YMMV thing, but the experience is kind of mixed because of those things. Like her personally, but given that the hobby has some high cost--time, convenience, money--i would hesitate to book the next appointment.

I wanted to see the SOBE Girls but not anymore, they actually even put a friend of mine on their 'clients not to see list' due to a miscommunication. There are plenty of other beautiful ladies out there.

I agree with BeeFEater500, post a review.  Even a mini if you don't have time...

Their PNG list must contain at least two entries '

for my standard contact has been ignored as well.

And I'm a one strike guy - there are just too many pretty ladies out there to fixate on any one (or group lol)

You should write a review. Although you figured this was a fine post for the board, it is better dealt with in a more straightforward way. Give her a five for performance if that's what you think she deserves.

But what you doin' counting on the provider's raincoat? They often use pretty generic condoms that don't fit too well. Makes a lot more sense to pack your own. You'll find it is a lot more pleasurable.

This lifestyle depends on your reviews. Good, bad or ugly, as long as it is an accurate review, it must be written. It only makes us "girls" do better

The answer is not always simple, but generally it is because

a. you are not comfortable providing all screening information we ask for

b. Our schedules don't meet

c. somehow, some place, your name (user name) is listed as a problem client in girls only database

there could be other reasons, but mostly it is "a" or "b" and sometimes "c". We respect all of you for not wanting to provide the info and also ask for respecting our wishes not wanting to meet with you if we are not comfortable with it.

I too agree with other posts that there are SOOO many beautiful girls out there and if you are not comfortable with me or any other provider, you should just move on!.

Love you all, with or without the verification info

I find this group personally very frustrating when it comes to the screening process.

I have references from outstanding independent providers AND several reviews posted, but I am self-employed, so they stopped answering my emails, citing their "screening policy". When I challenged the logic of a policy that automatically excludes the self-employed (not to mention the independently wealthy) despite very good references, I did not receive any response.

It is a shame because they are located in a very convenient area for me, so I would have probably become a regular customer if they would just let me have one appointment...!!!

Sorority girls - if you happen to read this and reconsider, feel free to respond to my messages! Otherwise, I will follow your advice and take my business elsewhere, I guess.

I agree with Beef.  Also, these girls are not on my list as it is a pain in the neck to get past their screening process.  I contacted a couple of them and I figure out what they are looking for in references.  I gave them two recent independant ladies with phone numbers but they are looking for ladies with email addys.  WHy does that matter I don't know.  I figured after being on the Board for these many years and over 90 reviews, their whole process is at odds with me.  Too many ladies out there to waste time with a few who want you to go thru the ringer before they will agree to meet.

Something fishy is going on there, time will tell

But I had a truly delightful time with Angie.  trying to find time to meet another one of the ladies.  Screening was pretty smooth, too.

JB

you probably don't have the verification info I need to be able to verify you so we can meet so I can give you a good spanking that you might like

Peace!
Stevie
(In bed alone still trying to recover )

those girls are not all of that from a few of my friends that have seen them, pictures are not them!

Please remember that sometimes the ladies the gents use as a reference do not respond.  

Just my .o2 cents.

I went through screening with Angie and it was no problem. My work schedule changed so I haven't been able to meet her yet..... When I do I will definately write a review.

Strange case sure, but that doesnt make the person a bad person at all. And if this person had an a 'strange' convo or email convo with an individual when should he be banned from all 'sobe' ladies? It just doesnt seem fair how you guys blackballed him.

this has been discussed a number of times on this board. I agree, i would appreciate something, even a "hey, sorry you don’t have proper info".

and there are reasons for this -

I am a gentleman

I have no "strkes" against me that I've ever heard about

I have first class bona fides in this hobby - excellent references, date-check, preferred411 whitelistings etc. All of the verification info that most ladies could desire - including very safety conscious, exclusive, high end companions.

I make dates well enough in advance so as to avoid scheduling probs

When I do not receive a reply to an initial contact, I consider it to be a sign to move on.

Cheers

GTM

from any of the "sobe" girls, and since they do in fact seem to be a "group" and to have a cookie cutter approach (ie websites / screening / contact page style identical, lack of responsivness etc etc ) I have made the decision that it is a waste of time for me to attempt to contact any other members. This decision has only been reinforced by the steady stream of posts on this topic.....

I'm pretty sure that (a), (b) and (c) are not the only reasons.  I tried to get verified (usually not too much of a problem for me), I heard nothing and when I asked for an update on the status I was told that I "couldn't be verified."

Perhaps a linguistic review of the reviews would be in order?

I don't generally like to get involved in these discussions but I have visited four of the sorority girls and have had no trouble either contacting them or being screened.  I have always received the courtesy of a reply and have been able to make appointments in a reasonable amount of time.  If my time could not be accommodated, I always received a reply.  As to the photos, I believe that all four that I have met had posted accurate photos.  I have posted reviews on all four visits.

I agree with the posters that say there are plenty of others out there.  If yo don't like the way you are treated, simply move on.  As to the original post, please do a submit a review if you had a problem but don't paint everyone with the same brush.  The four young ladies I met were a pleasure to deal with and I wish them well.

You could not make this stuff up and fill a book. Thanks.

i was surprised i didn't make the cut i was a little miffed but took my money elswhere  what can you do but vote with your cash and drive on

...have been around here for several years, got banned from the board, and had to change their names in order to get back on the board.  "Fishy" is definitely the functional word here...

Employment reference is a show stopper, and they may keep your real name on file - who know where it will go or who really  has it.

thats actually a good point. i grew some standard expectations.

I simply move on, As I browse through the board, their ads are ignored. When I read reviews, I skip theirs. As far as I'm concerned they are a non issue. A pay them absolutely no attention and they don't bother me at all. Why get so worked up about them? As mentioned many times before, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

I haven't seen any negative feed back on their reviews but only pointless, persnickety comments from guys who haven't seen any of them in person ....

If they are pointless, what is the point of having a discussion board? Isnt this a review of sorts in itself? People are discussing their opinions, both good and bad, freely. If that is pointless, you clearly have a close minded view of "discussion"

ASONQWSA12"I simply move on, As I browse through the board, their ads are ignored. When I read reviews, I skip theirs. As far as I'm concerned they are a non issue. A pay them absolutely no attention and they don't bother me at all."


 Discussion is one thing however the above post does not seem to be part of a discussion, but merely bruised ego driven, mocking comments ...
IMO and Freud's

I have no bruised ego. I am not one of those who have been ignored. Because, seeing posts such as those above, I have decided to "move on" and not get mixed up in it. And who did I mock? I'm Just stating my opinion on the subject, and recommending that rather than getting worked up by not being verified by these ladies, Take a hint from the negative feedback above and do not even try.

Just like any customer service experience, those who have what they perceive to be a bad one are most likely to speak out to others about it.  Ones who have a great customer service experience have less motivation to post to the board.  Nobody wants to read, "hey, thanks to the SOBE girls for quickly verifying and seeing me!".  On the other hand, people love to read, "Those SOBE girls ignored my appointment request, I need to vent about it."  

Guess I'll have to contribute a boring post and say that when I contacted them, I was quickly verified and scheduled.  Clearly YMMV.

Meh.  What you've said is no big deal.  THAT girl, on THAT occasion, didn't fully meet your standard.

Fair enough.

For others, though, there seem to be two takes, one general (and unfair), and one specific (and totally fair).

My specific take is that I have had a tough time coordinating times and schedules with a couple of SOBE girls, but the time I DID coordinate with Stevie was great.

I have fantasies about getting with all the girls at once...but that's b/c they have created that fantasy, that fun, in their promotional and marketing strategy.

What seems to disappoint some here is that they have yet to join in on the fun.  Well, good luck with that, but don't hate...promulgate.  Some here have done that and moved on.  Others seem to want to launch their own marketing campaign against these ladies.

Less than fair.