Providers and Mongers alike what are your plans for the New Year?


For me....just sitting hear thinking after I say Happy New Year tonight what will my Hobby plans be for the New Year?

- Should I retire? I've taken a break from hobbying during the month of December and the last part of November. My cash flow is better; I'm more relaxed since I'm not obsessing over who should I give my next $$$ too; other than the occassional morning wood my dick has not been on constant "swoel," relatively speaking, versus when I'm searching for the next provider.  Hmmmm.

- Should I limit my activity to a certain type of session?  For example, I'm a fan of mutual FBSM (when done right) and Female Body builders.  Can I do this or will I eventually venture out to more features and variety provided by the pay for play world?

- Should I pursue the sugardaddy form of pay for play?  I've been presented with two recent opportunities for this but based on research of other mongers who've done this it can turn into a more expensive proposition than the "normal" contracting with a provider.  And, may also present more drama.

- Should I be adventurous and try something I've never done before, say the BDSM world?

decisions, decisions

After approximately 30 providers and the better part of 70 dates my first year in the hobby, "slow" is the word.

I have my two ATFs as well as others with whom I feel comfortable should my balls turn blue and they not be available.  There are still three on my "must see" fantasy date list with whom I need to hook up and I will plan them for sometime in the first quarter.  

Every three weeks or so is the plan at this point.  Would like to expand into some toy play with the ATFs in 2013, will see how they feel about that.

I'm finding out now that being Sugardaddy is more expensive.

I think I'm gonna chill in 2013; stop taking chances with providers who don't live up to my two ATFs- I guess hobbying, like real life, while money driven, is also influenced by chemistry and a sense of connection- you just click with certain people- today I had a "meh" experience with a beautiful provider- good personality, pretty, nice body, but mechanical interaction at best-I'm kind of a novice hobbyist, in that I'm just starting to venture from my ATFs, but I think it's time to go back to my original plan of minimalism

About to enter the world of "Eyes Wide Shut", homie lol

Yes this will be a continued effort on my part.  As long as the cash continues to flow and the time opportunity is there I think I will stay in the game.  I have found a few lower cost young ladies that I may venture out for.  I have found that what some charge is not a reflection on the experience.  There is a sea of 250/hr-300 talent waiting to be tapped.   Happy hunting guys and always remember to wrap that rascal  !!