I just had a session with a provider, which taught me a lesson.
I did extensive research on TER, and her reviews were off the hook, so I booked a session.  

She started with BBJ - very nice.  I reciprocated with DATY.  The BBJ turned into a combination HJ and BBJ.  She was working me so fast I knew I would pop soon.  I was not overly concerned because the majority of her reviews included multiple pops, or at least the offer of a second pop.  I popped.  She went to the bathroom to freshen up, and returned.  She sat next to where I was laying on the bed, and started talking, and talking, and talking.  I was stroking her arm, thigh, and hip.  She never touched me.  After about 5 minutes, she pulled the bedspread over her lower body.  The room was not cold, so I thought seconds were not happening.  To my regret, conversation "only" went until the session was over.  She showered and left.

After stewing about it, I called and told her I was unhappy.  She told me I should have told her exactly what I wanted, and she would have provided.  I disagreed.  I did not have to tell her I wanted the initial BBJ.  I told her she was the provider, and if she really was willing to provide, then she should have provided, or offered.

I know providers are not mind readers, but in her reviews, she consistently initiated, or offered, seconds.  For the record, there was "one" review exactly like mine - BBJTC followed by lengthy conversation, and nothing more.  So, what does everyone else think?  Should I have said, "Shut up and blow me?"

 
   

I believe if there is something you want to happen and it is not happening you should speak up.  A gentle nudge - will yield the result you are looking for most of the time or you find out quickly.

although i'm just a novice to this hobby, my suggestion is
to just clear everything up before the session begins. that way there are no questions, and you can just relax and enjoy your time with her.  in your particular situation, yeah, i would have asked for a 2nd pop right there on the spot.  that's what you were paying for, right??

Agree with all the previous posts. You should have indicated that you wanted and expected a second pop.

I had similar situations a couple of times and have always asked. One said that there were no seconds, but the others provided more when requested.

I know this hobby is about fantasy. The GFE is not really that it just seems like that. Some providers really enjoy what they do but for most it is still work. When I meet a provider for the first time I usually ask if a 2nd pop will be possible. In most cases they tell me I can have as much "coffee" as I can consume in our alloted time. Sometimes they tell me up front it will be one and out. It also may be a case of how busy your companion is that day. In any case if you don't ask or in some other way indicate your desire for more action she may assume you're well satisfied.