I just had a session with a provider, which taught me a lesson.
I did extensive research on TER, and her reviews were off the hook, so I booked a session.  

She started with BBJ - very nice.  I reciprocated with DATY.  The BBJ turned into a combination HJ and BBJ.  She was working me so fast I knew I would pop soon.  I was not overly concerned because the majority of her reviews included multiple pops, or at least the offer of a second pop.  I popped.  She went to the bathroom to freshen up, and returned.  She sat next to where I was laying on the bed, and started talking, and talking, and talking.  I was stroking her arm, thigh, and hip.  She never touched me.  After about 5 minutes, she pulled the bedspread over her lower body.  The room was not cold, so I thought seconds were not happening.  To my regret, conversation "only" went until the session was over.  She showered and left.

After stewing about it, I called and told her I was unhappy.  She told me I should have told her exactly what I wanted, and she would have provided.  I disagreed.  I did not have to tell her I wanted the initial BBJ.  I told her she was the provider, and if she really was willing to provide, then she should have provided, or offered.

I know providers are not mind readers, but in her reviews, she consistently initiated, or offered, seconds.  For the record, there was "one" review exactly like mine - BBJTC followed by lengthy conversation, and nothing more.  So, what does everyone else think?  Should I have said, "Shut up and blow me?"