if a guy can't cum...by that I mean being a prostate cancer survivor I can get hard and even have a sensation of climaxing but nothing comes out and to be honest this doesn't happen very often.  would it be too strange just to have DATY. Would any lady get frustrated if there was some attempts at french and other activities and nothing happened.  I need female contact just to feel alive but I know it may not go as well as I want it to go

issues and dont cum/and some dont get hard but still enjoy all activities that they can do.
 the first couple of times this happened i did feel like "what am i doig wrong here!!!" but after open discussion with my client all is understood.  I think if you are open with the provider in the beginning is the way to go.(not in an appt request email i would do it at whatever appropriate moment when you are getting intimate)  At least for me it allows me to relax more and therefore enjoy our time together.
really no big deal at all, remember our goal is to do what pleases YOU (and its a super plus that we get to enojoy as well )

I've had a regular client with this same problem. It's really not a big deal and is the case with many older men. If you explain the situation to us, I don't think any of us would have a problem.

Love

Sharon