Though she has been absent from the scene for a few years, she is the absolute hottest woman out there. Come back!

While it is completely natural to reminisce over our past encounters, 911 requests like these always get me going..

Why act in such a desperate manner? There are plenty of beautiful women all over the DC area. If a girl wants to be reached, she knows how to get back on TER

Enough said ???

lol curly..i love how blunt and honest you can be.
every board needs a reality check and im glad we get ours from you.



but about this lovely woman, i understand how important your ATF is. I have a gentleman whos MY atf (yeah us girls have them to!) and he's awesome! best pen pal ive had!

But certain people just get way too attached... A little kick in the heiney doesn't hurt anyone..

very true, i actually had to put a good fella on DNS list because he got wayyy to involved.
I have made personal connections with some of the men i have met but since i am open about having a SO, i dont entertain the fall in love with your provider thing - most stay in the friend zone.

i guess sometimes ppl do need a kick in the behind! smh...

but back to original post...i cant help but ask this....even tho  i have my own experience & understanding with my SO (swinging seemed to "even out" our situation....)i wonder........

how can you fall in love with provider? i mean...i always ask my BF this bc I feel so LUCKY to have found someone understanding but we did not meet through business, we grew up in same area so we eventually met and been together for +4 yrs....but can a client/provider relationship evolve into REAL love, not real lust/infatuation relationship? and can a provider REALLY trust that guy after being his mistress for so long? whos to say he wont go find a new ATF and keep cycle going? or whos to say he's just mislead by his cock? what happens to HER heart in the procesS?

what if he really loves her and she's using him? how can a guy trust his ATF to really LOVE him?




blah i mean to disrespect with my post, just some things i have thought of before and did not post about to avoid bashing and misunderstanding but fuck it - here's my .02...





blah! LOL a peak at my crazy thoughts when i read these damn posts! :S

Believe it or not...sometimes it does happen. However, lot of times its just lust and it ends pretty badly. You may find 1 in million cases where people were able to have successful relationship after meeting each other in the business.

Its best not to do it.

People hobby for variety of reasons. I hobby for SEX and SEX only. Sometimes friendships do happen, and I don't refuse them if it happens, but that is not my purpose, and as you said it stays in the friendship zone.  Some people seek out friendship/companionship through hobby, and to each is their own. I'm not here to judge anyone, but those who hobby for friendship/companionship are more susceptible to having emotional issues.

Personally, for me when the door closes behind me, the fantasy is over...until we meet the next time.

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Are you kidding me..? I was just raving and remembering about how super nice and hot this lady is and now all of this talk about guys falling in love with their ATFs? In no way is this intended to be a slam against other ladies in the DC area. DC has some of the most beautiful and sweet women around, and I'm sure that the two of you are two of the sweetest. I never knew that giving a compliment to a deserving lady would stir this up. SORRY!

Nothing wrong with reminiscing. It's hard not to miss an ATF or two from time to time.

Stalker..? Please. Let's end this post.