I don't think anybody will try to convince you.  You're going to do what you want to do.  There are good providers in this area (I am one), who look just like their pictures and strive to make you gentleman happy.  Just check her reviews and try to get a feel for her on the phone.  You should be able to tell whether she'll pamper you the way you need it.  Also, make sure you're considerate and plan your appointment well in advance.