Please contact me if that's you!  I'm recently retired at 65 yrs of age and want to finally enjoy my retirement although I don't have references because of my previously (government) employment.  I'm happy to provide you with whatever info/$$ you require to enable me to enjoy your attention!

David

Every time you post for this, you are such a turnoff.  Why not approach it in a different manner.  You will probably do better in getting what you are looking for.  Just a thought

Search privately for someone newbie friendly.

Get a reference in order, tip a little extra, write a good review, spend an extra 10 mins eating the kitty, share jokes, whatever would leave her with a positive impression.

 
Then contact whomever has been saying no to you.

Go to reviews, search reviews, and input the town and the area you're looking for.  Maybe you'll find what and/or who you're looking for.

Ha! lol OMG I just watched the movie Train Wreck last night and you remind me of John Cena's character when he's trying to talk dirty