I am built very thick,  and using a toy can help a lady to become a bit more relaxed and accommodate me more comfortably, especially up the tushie......    

If this is a poll, I don't really like sex toys.  Love the feel and texture of lingerie or even a very soft pair of cut off jeans and T-shirt.  I dunno, they just seem more of a distraction than adding to anything.  Again thats just me, I know others get into it

I do not particularly like sex toys for me.  I see that Guarddog111 agrees with me on that.  I suspect women's anatomy is more receptive to toys and so she may enjoy it more that I.

I am very open minded about experimenting and trying new things and pushing the boundaries, so I am open to sex toys. I have been in situations with ladies that I trusted and we had a comfortability level that had been established and we have used sex toys.

I don't require them, but if she's interested it means she's getting creative or just wants to make  sure she gets off, too.  It's a much bigger turn-on for me if my partner gets off or at least tries to.

I love toy play because I can drive my partner to new erotic heights by using toys, tongue, lips, fingers and clock.  It's an art form, like anything sexual, and they can be a distraction or worse if not used sensitively.  Santa has a bag of toys when he arrives, but whether he uses them, which ones and how aggressively depends entirely on my partner.  I will say that more multi- orgasmic women seem to respond more to a variety of toys and often have their own.  But to each her own, and thank God for the individuality that keeps this hobby so fascinating!

I just haven't gotten around to getting one.  Spinner babe who would do it both backward and forward. Wow, that has got to be some sight to see up close.  Sure does look like fun.

And I never threaten.  I just offered what I thought was some good, solid advice and of course never expected you to take it. *sigh*
And "my pet" is just a figure of speech.  No need to get creeped out by it.  Poor guy.  You let all this stuff get to you way too much.
Meanwhile, I'm just sitting back chuckling.

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I've seen a modification that has the toy strapped to the forehead like a headlamp.  Allows for wider range of motion, and doesn't block your tongue.  Yes, it's hard to *reach* anything with your tongue while using that, but...

One time, an ATF, now retired I think, whipped out a vibrator buried under the pillow and proceeded to us it on my, you know, down there. I asked, "Do you clean it between appointments?" She mumbled something intelligible.

especially if we use it while we're engaged, wink wink.

I agree with Charlie, sex toys should not be introduced without prior discussion, especially those that seem more extreme, but once introduced, go for it, if mutually agreed (ladies do seem to be innately curious creatures).

we've seen each other often.  I've never had them offered on a first date and probably sure that it would probably not work out well until you know the person's response better.

I use them all the time.