So I've been experimenting with this 'affair-finder' website lately.  While the concept is certainly attractive, for the most part, it has been a complete waste of time for me.  In three months, I've probably solicited a couple hundred women.  I estimate about 30 hours spent reading profiles and send crafty messages.  Of the less than five people who have responded to me, I think I got completely lucky with one which resulted in a decent one night stand.  I invested $150 to start and still have about $50 in credits left.  The women I hooked up with told me she gets slammed every day with solicitations from horny guys.  Sounded like she can pretty much pick and choose who to see...and mind you this woman doesn't even post a photo with her profile!  Anyway, when you think about it, none of this is surprising...women have always had the upper hand when it comes too choosing sex partners.  Nevertheless, I'm curious if anyone has any experience with AM that they would like to share or perhaps about a similar web service.

I spent some time on AM, doing much the same as you. I actually made contact with only 2 REAL women. The rest are fake profiles set up by AM to make it look like there are more women on there. When my credit balance dropped to zero, I started getting wink messages from random girls, and I thought maybe my luck was changing. But it turns out they were probably bots run by AM to get me to buy more credits.

I'm not wasting any more $$$ on AM. In the end it will cost me the same $$$ to get ass from a provider and they are a sure thing...

Plus most providers aren't going to be upset with you if you don't call them the next day, LoL.

they certainly have a decent marketing campaign, but really, when one thinks about it, how could it ever be worth anyone's time?  With all the strangeness that occurs with people everywhere, I just don't think the odds are stacked in the favor of really achieving what they advertise.  Just my opinion.

on two sites specifically over the years. Sugardaddyforme and seekingarrangement. It's a lot of work but there is no shortage of young ladies who will hook up weekly for pay for play fun. It takes work a lot of work but can be very rewarding. I start out weekly and if after a introductory period it works then a monthly allowance. You will spend as much as the hobby plus the cost of location unless the young lady can host but there is no feeling of being on the clock.  It takes work and you must be willing to share a picture.
I find that the combination of that and hobbying is all I need. I just don't hobby nearly as much now.

I used AM for about a solid six months and put in the work to try and meet a like minded lady.  After the investment of time and money I met one lady and when we met her goal was to see how it worked becasue she had "girlfriend," yeah right, who recently discovered her husband cheating and using AM to accomplish it.  So she sets up date meets me for lunch where the conversation turned to why men and women should not cheat.

I ended the lunch and suggested to her that her motives for using AM is a dangerous game to play.

I still have credits left on AM but I have not used that peice of shit site for almost 2 years now.

I tried it out like 10 years ago and they were doing some of that...and recently a woman I met from Craigslist told me her husband had tried AFF a few months ago and there was a ton of that - fake messages to get you to pay to read them.