Anyone have recommendations for a couple friendly provider?

A little roleplay might be required as the wifey would not do it if she knew that a professional was involved

As someone who's been involved in the swinger's scene for a bit, this is not a great start to a fun time. Playing with group situations, especially with your wife, requires complete honesty and openness. If you guys can't talk about what you each expect to get out of a group situation, you're not going to have a happy ending to the fun.  

I'm very couple-friendly, but I'd never go into a situation where both parties weren't completely on board.  

The problem is that single ladies who are willing to play with couples are in very high demand, so finding a couple-friendly provider is going to be a much easier way to indulge in this type of fun than using other means. But, your wife has to be comfortable with it too.  

Jenn

What an intelligent, well-presented post Jenn.  This is exactly what I think these forums should be for - an honest exchange of ideas and individual experiences to benefit all.

Au Contraire, I believe this is a 'Good Start' (for you)

Bravo!

...every1 was on board for fun. Its just either 1 party or the other wasnt aware I was a pro.... the story went as if we had met on a chatline or swingers site. Or I met the gent/wife b4 hand and acted as if when Imet them as a couple it was the first time. Like I'd never met the gent/wife b4.

Noticed a HUGEsurge in couples requests lately... is there something in the water? LOL

But it would still make me nervous. Not to be shallow, but I'd think that the party who wasn't in on the pro aspect might have some questions if there was a noticeable attractiveness imbalance (if that makes any sense). I also think there's something extra dishonest about omitting that fact - I would want to know the background of the woman I was introducing into my relationship, and I hope my partner would want to know that as well.  

Now, I'm not saying that a pro is a bad way to go, in fact I think it's probably the easiest and best way to start out with a threesome. You know that you're getting someone who can handle themselves in the bedroom, and who has experience adjusting their style BCD to the needs/wants of their clients. In addition, you know you're getting discretion, which is super important to DC area folks.  

I just think that adding an extra dynamic into a situation that is already tricky to navigate would be a bit difficult.

Now, if it was the husband who wasn't aware I was a pro, I might feel better about it, just because I think guys would be much more forgiving...but maybe I'm being too stereotypical....

I too have been looking for a couple-friendly provider, at my friend's request, only to find that most providers charge lots extra for couples.  I have never understood the additional fee, from $100 to double the rate, for a couple.  An hour is an hour isn't it?  There are a few who do not charge extra, but most do.  But a doubling of the rate seems ridiculous to me.

What's the justification?  An hour is an hour.

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I spend more time getting to know the wants/desires of the couple up front, so there's significantly more energy put in to couples appointments up front. Also, there's definitely more work on my part even during a meeting - when I'm with one other person I am focusing on one dynamic - my client and me. But with two people, I'm dealing with three dynamics - mine and hers, mine and his, mine and theirs as a couple. It's more emotionally and physically taxing. Also, most couples are looking for direction, as they likely haven't experienced group play before, so there's a lot more teaching involved. It's just more work. I personally don't think it's double the work, but it's definitely more.  

And believe me, you want someone who puts the extra work into it. There's WAY too many variables for a provider to just walk into it like any other appointment.

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