.....A common attitude on the phone is almost always the first indication to beware,smart move on your part.We are fortunate to be in a region where there are many companions that work hard to develop and maintain their brand, and get the concept of customer service.Research is key these days,safe journeys & happy hobbying!

So recently I had interaction with a rude provider (not interested in posting her name and blowing her up that's childish)

But it seems to me if a person posts a commercial solicitation, they should be prepared to put their best face forward in responding to their advertisement.

I don't understand responding to an ad and the provider picks up acting agitated.  You won't get my money simple as that.

As hobbyists we are giving awy money for something many of us could get for free...

But regardless if a hobbyist is prepared to spend money and acting polite and responsibly I would expect a provider to act polite and responsibly.

When I go to mcdonalds I don't have to endure bad attitudes for that double cheeseburger, and when I go to the Mac store I don't have to tolerate it to get my computer serviced.

This is not directed toward any woman who treats her clients respectably... I guess I just want professional service at least keep the fantasy alive.

I know some women are dealing with drug problems so that may factor in... But seriously... The hobbyist is not your worst enemy.

and came up with a more flattering, less commercialized term like "companions".  Notice that's how the previous gentleman referred to them.  I'm not suggesting that would improve an already bad attitude; most likely nothing will.  But it would be a whole lot less demeaning in my opinion.  Maybe it's just the women I've seen to date and plan to see, but the term "provider" just doesn't adequately describe the wonderful experiences I've had and anticipate having.  Your thoughts?

Ummm..... I'm no Heman Woman Basher.... But I'd think "QUOTE" provider "/QUOTE" is already an extenstion of kindness when referring to... Well.... "Providers".... Certainly trumps whore tramp and prostitute but if companion makes u feel better bro cheers I'm neither a woman basher nor a white knight basher so don't mind me....

I guess a large part of my thought is... I have 700 bitches I could call to be rude IRL... I'm calling providers to be a break from me having to be socially polite, pretend to like what girls like, etc.  Calls to providers are to spread em... When I think GFE I don't mean annoy me like my GF.... So I don't enjoy being treated any less than a king because I certainly don't treat any provider less than a queen... We are there for the stipulated time... I will be clean and fresh... And that's pretty much it right? If I wanted a nagging buzzard I could find that without the hobby...I won't disrespect you or take it beyond your boundaries at all but just STFU and do your job... No reason to be giving me attitude on just the first communication trying to set up an appointment Re: a session... I didn't tell you to advertise on TER,,, Your decision...so stfu bitch and answer your professional calls politely or don't answer them... Just I guess a dopey mans thought

I'm all for a terminology upgrade discussion.However, kindly refrain from hi-jacking a post to puff out your own chest and contrive a phony miscarriage of etiquette by claiming that hobbyists are disrespecting the ladies by referring to them as companions as if it was vulgar and mendacious. Hey, I'm open to hearing you out,just start your own thread and save your "white knight" postulations for the boudoir of your "Lady" friends.Safe journeys & Happy Hobbying.

How does this sound?
Check out those hospitality experts on the street corner.
I had a hospitality expert suck me dry last night.

Then the newspaper "hospitality experts arrested in hotel sting"

I think you need to hijack another phrase.

I prefer "hospitality expert.". Thank you for your support!

Actually, I agree. And to be quite frank, I've been called a "whore" (and felt more like one!) when I was giving it away for free. We are professionals providing a professional service. And yes, it I like ordering a cheeseburger. Tell me what you want and if I have it, I provide. If you are getting rude service, love, you are visiting the wrong burger stand.

It is important for everyone to be polite.  Practice what you preach.  I highly doubt you have 700 bitches IRL to be rude to.  You are a real piece of work.  Not a nice one either.  Let's see, no reviews and a newer TER handle.  You have no clout here.  I am certain you are getting what you give.  Rudeness.

I hope you don't mean what I think you mean by getting it for free. Otherwise you should be locked up , period. There's a reason you use TER to find providers and there's also a reason you don't get it for free.

hahha oooook? I just wanted to add I have gone to McDonalds and had people be VERY rude to me when I just wanted  a Big Mac!!!! How F"ing rude!!!!! But I agree we should be polite and nice when answering phone and setting things up. Save the bitchiness for the bedroom. Kidding again.

Love to all!!

I am a former delivery driver the most recognized worldwide and my job title was SERVICE PROVIDER and I did not service any one or provide but if any lonely housewives asked I would have ben happy no charge...IT's just a title companion does ring with class

Oh my we are a harsh bunch!  Mercy!

Instead of venting about her lack of "professionalism" and her lack of ability to "STFU" and "do her job", just don't call again and move on to another provider.  You sound more than a little upset that she didn't respond to your overwhelmingly enticing voice with the enthusiasm and desire you feel you deserved.  It's time to step back, take a deep breath and move on, possibly to some of those "freebies" you mentioned.  Maybe they will respond better to your animal magnetism.

If I posted every time I received an email or PM from a time-waster, I would take up the whole board. I'm sure the other women can relate.

As to the other issue...you boys can call me anything you want.  In fact if it's nasty it kinda turns me on....LOL!  I crack myself up!

I can't wait to see what kind of sputum this post incites...

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It seems everyone on both sides of the fence feel the same.
I agree. This is a hospitality recreation.
Nobody has entered into this liestyle to be dissrespeced.
If I could only teach gens to be gens and respectful on the phone as well.
It is still phone politeness to introduce oneself when I answr my cell.
Not hey I seen you ad how much ? No hello no scew you.. Just how much?

Sriously I have been around 7 years and wish we all dealt with each other much better on both sides.
Make all of us enjoy ourselfs.

I'm open to suggestions.....

I dont know about the "hobbyists" (and seriously, what kind of name is THAT?), but you've turned me on, Renae!

that be a lot o bitches sugar dick!

Why not head that way and tap that shit fo free?
Gimmee a fucking break and do a little research before you book.
Now Go to McDonalds and smear some special sauce up in there...


Fo free!!!!

It would be nice if everyone always communicated and acted with politeness and out of mutual respect. Unfortunately, this isn't realistic in the world we live in. Fortunately, you have the freedom of choice. If you don't like how you are being treated, then please feel free to move on to someone who is a better fit for what you seek.

The OP reminds me of another poster who enjoyed winding up board members with similar topics and comparable grammar while using a TER ID which roughly spelled backwards is a large ocean colored lizard like fire breather.

WTF are YOU doing here?
I seriously doubt you are getting any NSA sex for free!  If you are, good for you and stop wasting our time on this board with your bashing.

Her so called attitude-did you call at a reasonable hour of day?  Did you blow up her phone with texts and calls or leave endless messages?  Did you call and say "how much for a bj"? Did you say I wanna f**k you, where you at?  Did you say spread em bitch? Did you say I don't have references-I'm new.....red flags!  
Any of these questions will get you an attitude from any lady.

yup I think you'd be off my list.  This is why I mainly see Asian laides, they treat me wonderful

i know itcan be tough sometimes for the provider but you don't want to drive there and have her act poorly and then ask for a few hundred.